Psychologist tell us that one of the basic components we need to be healthy people emotionally, physically, spiritually, and sociologically is a sense of belonging. If that is missing people feel insecure. In order for us to have good self images, to be able to love ourselves, and to love our neighbors as ourselves, we must overcome our insecurities and develop a sense of security. When we feel secure then we are able to work to establish stable relationships with our friends and neighbors and help them develop security in their lives.