Here's what I mean by "Reject the Default Mom Life Narrative"
First - what IS the default Mom Life narrative?
It's the belief that moms life is:
*Facebook groups packed with “no, MY husband is the worst!” posts
*Memes joking how our kids suck the life out of us…
*…but don’t you dare talk badly about your kids or complain - be grateful for gosh sake!
*Feeling like a major inconvenience if we dare put ourselves first, feeling guilt the whole time
*Revenge scrolling because there’s no time in our lives for us
*Nagging because no one listens the first time as resentment builds
*If you don’t put your kids first, you’re selfish
*Sacrifice is the name of the game - if you don’t give it all to motherhood, you’re an asshole
We're SOAKED in this messaging - and eventually, if you soak in it long enough... you start to believe it.
The default belief is moms are expected to be (and accept being):
-Endlessly self-sacrificing
So - I want to you REJECT that default.
DO NOT accept that just because you're a mom you're meant to be those things.
YOU ARE NOT meant to constantly live life this way.
Your natural state is joy, peace, calm, happy, fulfilled, present... and more.
Now - don't mistake this for you can't or shouldn't feel some of those things.
YES- you WILL feel overwhelmed, resentful, exhausted... but DO NOT accept that as a part of being mom.
It just doesn't have to be our default.
When you DO feel that way- it's your internal GPS saying something is off. Because it's not your natural state.
Instead of buying in to the shoulder shrug of "Well, that's just how moms feel!" - reject it. Feel the feeling, know it's NOT the default or just how it is... and know your GPS is speaking to you.
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