WHAT A MESS

WHAT A MESS

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WHAT A MESS episodes

  • Change your MESS
    The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new. Kalilah is focused on reinventing herself. As the pandemic dies down and we shift into new MESS, the structure of her business and personal goals yearn for change. Employees are resigning from the business, forcing Kalilah to restructure and come up with a new plan. 
    34 min
  • Taxes MESS

    Kalilah recounts the MESS she has made with taxes and warns other entrepreneurs. Doing well with money has little to do with how smart you are, but a lot to do with how you behave. As tax season approaches, are you making the best financial decisions for yourself and your business? 

    21 min
  • Will you slap the MESS out of me?

    If you never heal from what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you. Kalilah recaps the 2022 Oscars MESS-hap with Chris Rock and Will Smith having a physical altercation. We assess what could have caused Will Smith to react this way and the impact of his actions. Was this the best way to deal with his MESS?

    32 min
  • Nesting MESS

    There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. Kalilah reassess her life and questions if the things she is putting effort into, worth her energy. She finds herself “nesting” and preparing for the birth of something new. 

    36 min
  • Opposite of life is not death MESS

    Kalilah recaps her 38th surprise not surprise birthday party and the funeral of her slain uncle, Uken Cummings. She brings listeners in on her intimate moments with friends and family as she celebrates life and the coming together of her family to mourn the dead. Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it.

    43 min
  • Employee relationship MESS
    Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others. Kalilah talks about her journey with employees and other relationships that have come to an end and how she is handling the separation. She questions herself about navigating business and friendship.
    35 min
  • Happy middle MESS
    There are no happy endings. Endings are the saddest part, so just give me a happy middle. Kalilah enters into 2022 with the unfortunate murder of her Uncle Uken Cummings, known as Uncle Bing. She reflects on how the untimely passing of her uncle and Cheslie Kryst, Miss USA 2019 who committed suicide on the same day, has affected her next steps and her determination to live a happy middle. 
    47 min
  • Passion is the key to your MESS

    Love what you do and do what you love. Passion is the key that opens the door to joy and abundance. As the year comes to an end, Kalilah examines if she is losing her passion for what she loves. She thinks the obligations you place on your passion, creates unwanted pressure that ultimately makes you unhappy. In 2022, Kalilah is committed to preserving her joy in abundance. 

    27 min
  • Death can be a MESS

    Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another. The death of Virgil Abloh impacted many across the world, Kalilah talks about death, your legacy, and how you want to be remembered after dying. 

    33 min
  • Detour MESS

    You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight. As the end of the year approaches, Kalilah contemplates the many different directions in which she can go in to arrive at the same destination. She assesses the smartest, easiest, and safest route to get to where she’s going. 

    31 min

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This is Kalilah Wright and you are listening to WHAT A MESS! Finding your own message through your mess. A podcast about love, life, motherhood, entrepreneurship, with all the MESS in between!