WHAT A MESS

Hire people who are better than you. Kalilah talks about her amazing assistants on her team and how they help her not make a big MESS. She recounts her journey of finding different assistants and how they’ve become an integral part of her business.

There is no way to be a perfect mother, but a million ways to be a good one. Kalilah talks about her journey through motherhood and how your parenting can be impacted from generation to generation. It’s your duty to break generational curses, from one mother to the next. 

Only the wisest and stupidest of people never change. Kalilah recounts events of her childhood and embraces the importance of change. She talks about her personal growth and evolution and where she is today and why change is integral in your journey.

If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. Daunte Wright, a black male, was killed by a police officer in Minneapolis, the same city in which George Floyd died. Kalilah reflects on her grief of hearing the name of another black man dying at the hands of the law.

Every addiction no matter what it is, is the result of trying to escape. Kalilah talks about the passing of legendary rapper DMX. She examines how our addictions to vices, though maybe not drugs and alcohol are still slowly killing us. 

Just because the past didn’t turn out like you wanted it to, doesn’t mean your future can’t be better than you ever imagined. Kalilah takes her son to Universal Studios and recounts her adventures. She talks about the challenges of painting a picture of a life she may never have. 

Peace is not in a place, person, or thing, it is when you find calm in your heart and your mind. Kalilah reminisce on moving from place to place in search of her peace. She is not conflicted on where to move next and if it will give her the peace she truly desires.

Kalilah reevaluates life and her next steps. Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort makes all the difference. Kalilah is unsure if where she is putting all her effort makes the most sense. Should she be the donut company that cost $4 per donut or should she be a 12 for $5 kind of company?

The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual of them all. Kalilah examines if she requires validation from others and how your greatness is accomplished, not when the validation occurs or when the world takes notice, but it’s the work you put in to get there. 

Kalilah recounts her interview with Jamaica’s lead morning show, Smile Jamaica, TVJ and expresses her gratitude to great women on International Women’s Day. Little girls with dreams, become women with a vision.