May 26, 2025

What does Femdom Mistress discipline really mean to you?

36 minutes

Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”

That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment.

In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive.

Today’s episode includes:
General definitions with BDSM
Power exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her.
Corporal punishment by a Dominant Woman
Impact play as part of BDSM culture
Various kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive.
Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub.

A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub.

There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby:
Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc.
Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities.
Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme.

A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time.

Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything!

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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