Transforming the Church with Dr. Derwin L Gray

What I Wish I Would Have Known Before I Became a Pastor - Part 2: Effective Ways to Engage in Difficult Conversations


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In this episode of the Transforming the Church Podcast, Pastor Derwin Gray delves into the essential skills needed for effective pastoral leadership, focusing on engaging in difficult conversations. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical principles, Pastor Derwin offers practical advice for ministry leaders and followers of Jesus who are committed to discipleship and mentoring. This episode is part of a series titled "What I Wish I Would Have Known Before I Became a Pastor," providing insights that transcend specific ministry roles and apply to all believers.

Here are a few of the practical things you’ll learn in this episode:

  • The Importance of Difficult Conversations: Engaging in difficult conversations is crucial for anyone in ministry. Avoiding these conversations can lead to greater issues later on.
  • Character Over Celebrity: Ministry is not about fame or celebrity status but about developing Christ-like character. Holiness and the fruit of the Spirit are paramount.
  • Practical Tips for Difficult Conversations: Never Raise Your Voice: Maintain a gentle and calm demeanor, even when discussing challenging topics.
  • Never Have a Difficult Conversation Alone: Always have another ministry leader present to ensure clarity and accountability.
  • Security in Christ: The more secure you are in your identity in Christ, the more maturely you can handle difficult conversations.
  • Biblical Foundation: Referencing 1 Timothy 3:1-7, Pastor Derwin emphasizes the importance of character and self-control for church leaders.
  • Cultural Sensitivity: Understand the cultural context of your audience and adapt your communication style accordingly.

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