What If You're Not The Problem?

What If You're Not The Problem?

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What If You're Not The Problem? episodes

  • Day 8: Weigh-In Monday | Start Where You Are

    Day 8 of the 30-Day Rethinking Weight journey… and today is Weigh-In Monday.


    This isn’t about pressure.

    This isn’t about perfection.


    This is about awareness.


    Where are you today - physically, mentally, emotionally?


    Because the number on the scale is just information…

    it doesn’t define you.


    We’re learning to stop fighting our bodies…

    and start working with them.


    One step. One choice. One day at a time.


    If you’re on this journey with me…

    you’re not alone.


    ✨ Ready to go deeper?


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DsGaxraO9ws

    3 min
  • Day 7: Protecting Your Peace Without Guilt

    Day 7 of 30: Rethinking Weight | The Mahogany Table Podcast | The Women Empowerment Zone

    🎻 The Barefoot Violinist interviewed on The Mahogany Table Podcast


    This conversation centers on one powerful idea: protecting your peace without guilt.


    We talk about the healing power of music, rethinking weight beyond the physical, and how emotional and spiritual weight impacts our lives. It also dives into caregiving, the challenges of supporting others while not losing yourself, and the importance of setting boundaries for true self-care.


    ✨ Key Takeaways:

    • Protect your peace - without guilt

    • Weight is not just physical… it’s emotional and spiritual too

    • Healing can come through music, touch, and intentional care

    • Boundaries are necessary for your well-being


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    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com | @TheBarefootViolinist

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-TRlncKvbeM

    59 min
  • Day 6: Be Intentional

    Day 6 of 30 | Today is all about being intentional.


    I’m getting my movement in - walking outside, breathing, and just being present… then heading out to grab spices for some vegan dishes I’m making. Simple, real-life moments… done on purpose.


    Because this journey isn’t about perfection.

    It’s about choosing on purpose, what you’re doing, how you’re moving, and how you’re showing up.


    So let me ask you…


    ✨ What are you being intentional about today?


    If you’re ready to do this differently…

    to release the weight - physically, emotionally, and mentally


    You’re in the right place.



    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtube.com/shorts/9OmLZxaQJ5o

    3 min
  • Day 5: Fun Food Friday 🍨 Blueberry Blast | You Don’t Have to Give Up Dessert

    Day 5 of the 30-Day Rethinking Weight journey is here… and today is all about sweetness 💙


    Welcome to Fun Food Friday - where we learn how to enjoy the foods we love… differently.


    Today’s feature is a signature dessert: ✨ Blueberry Blast ✨

    Creamy, naturally sweet, and satisfying - without working against your goals.


    Because this isn’t about restriction…

    It’s about awareness.

    It’s about shifting how you think about food.


    👉 You don’t have to give up dessert.

    You just have to rethink it.


    Inside my eCookbooks, you’ll find colorful, simple, and realistic recipes that help you enjoy the process - without feeling like you’re missing out.


    From Bright Starts to Dinner Is Ready to It’s All About Dessert…

    this is about creating a lifestyle that actually works.


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com | @TheBarefootViolinist

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtube.com/shorts/fsjNgAOUK8w



    🎧 Follow for daily encouragement + real conversations about releasing the weight—physically, emotionally, and mentally.

    3 min
  • Day 4: Thrive Thursday | 10 Minute Workout (MoveLite™)

    In Day 4 of the 30-Day Rethinking Weight challenge, we’re focusing on movement—without pressure, without extremes.


    This 10-minute Thrive Thursday session introduces a different way to move using low-impact activation with the LifePro vibration plate. Whether you’re recovering from injury, just getting started, or simply looking for a sustainable approach, this is about meeting your body where it is.


    MoveLite™ is built on simple, intentional movement that fits your life - because around here, we don’t do hard… we do what works.


    If you’re ready to start moving forward, this is your moment.


    Click SHOP → What I Actually Use to get your vibration plate and tools used in this session.


    🎯 This is Day 4 of the challenge… have you started?


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com | @TheBarefootViolinist

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    🧵 Clothing Design by https://ArtbyHUI.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/K1SoI0XB66M


    🎧 Follow for real conversations around releasing the weight - physically, mentally, and emotionally.

    11 min
  • Day 3: The Truth About Oil (Hidden Calories Blocking Weight Loss)

    Day 3 of 30 - Most people don’t realize how much oil they’re actually consuming… and it may be the hidden reason nothing is changing.

    In today’s episode of the 30-Day Rethinking Weight series, we’re breaking down one of the most overlooked pieces of the puzzle: oil.

    From “healthy oils” to fried foods, calories add up fast—without ever making you feel full. And while the world debates seed oils vs. olive oil… we’re asking a different question:


    👉 How much are you actually consuming?

    This isn’t about fear.

    This isn’t about restriction.

    This is about awareness.


    Because when you understand what’s really happening… everything starts to shift.


    If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not seeing results—this conversation is for you.


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    🎧 Follow for real conversations around releasing the weight—physically, mentally, and emotionally.


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com | @TheBarefootViolinist

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    🧵 Clothing Design by https://ArtbyHUI.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gAPr_kM9HK8

    9 min
  • Day 2: Just Breathe - How to Calm Stress & Reset Your Mind

    Day 2 of my 30 Day Challenge… and today we slow it all the way down.

    This is Intentional Tuesday - and we’re starting with something simple… but powerful: breathing.


    Most of us don’t even realize it… but we’ve been living in shallow, rushed breathing - and it keeps our bodies in a constant state of stress. Today, we pause. We reconnect. We reset.


    This isn’t about perfection… it’s about awareness.


    Take a moment with me… breathe… and ask yourself:

    What am I doing today… intentionally?


    Because one intentional step can shift everything.


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com | @TheBarefootViolinist

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    🧵 Clothing Design by https://ArtbyHUI.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/cyljX_YOAMc

    7 min
  • Day 1: 30 Day Challenge To Move Forward

    What is your 30-day challenge? Is it releasing weight - physically, mentally, and emotionally? Is it starting a business, or finally cleaning and organizing your home? Whatever it is… let’s start today.


    🎻 Music by The Barefoot Violinist | https://TheBarefootViolinist.com

    🌐 Visit: https://RethinkingWeight.com

    🧵 Clothing Design by https://ArtbyHUI.com

    📚 Get your eCookBooks / Workout Equipment - under SHOP

    🎁 Grab your FREE Gift on the homepage

    🎥 Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ci4DHi9fEv8

    4 min
  • Episode 7: Denied by Banks? Get Capital in 1-2 Days - Here's How w/Darius Ellis

    In this episode, we sit down with Mom & Pop Business Funding (ToTheRescueFunding.com) to talk about how business owners are securing the funding they need in as little as 1–2 days—even after being turned down by traditional lenders.

    This conversation breaks down:

    • Why many businesses get denied by banks

    • What options are available right now

    • How funding decisions are really being made

    • What business owners can do to position themselves for fast approval

    If you’re looking to grow, expand, or simply stay ahead, this episode offers real insight into how to access capital when timing matters most.


    💡 Funding Highlights (Mentioned in This Episode):


    • Funding available up to $1,000,000

    • Decisions in as little as 1–2 days

    • Soft credit pull

    • Flexible approval options

    • Consideration for lower credit profiles (including ~500 FICO)

    • Bankruptcies and tax liens may be considered


    🎧 Listen now and learn what’s possible.

    👉 https://totherescuefunding.com

    23 min
  • Episode 6: Wife, Mom of 5… Now What? | Empty Nest, Getting Healthy & Trusting God’s Next Move

    After raising five kids and pouring into her family for years, what happens when the house gets quiet?

    In this honest conversation, I sit down with my friend, I call her my twin - she's a wife, mother of five, and woman of faith, as she shares the unseen weight she carried, the shift into empty nest life, and what it looks like to finally choose herself.

    We talk about getting healthy, letting go of guilt and clutter, and trusting God’s next move in this new season.

    If you’re navigating change, rediscovering yourself, or ready to release the weight you’ve been carrying… this one is for you.

    33 min

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