What Iz He Thinking

There are few things more heartbreaking for a single person than being put in the friend zone by someone you want more with.  In 2022, not only does this happen to men, but it happens to women as well.  In this Ask Alex Q & A podcast episode, we let women know why a man might put her in the friend zone, against her will, no matter how cool it seems like their connection is.  We also answer the question about how long a woman should date a man without being officially labeled his girlfriend.  Lastly, we discuss green flags that men look for when dating (or in a relationship) with a woman, that makes them want to take their relationship to the next level.  If any of these topics stoke your curiosity or you have always wanted to know the answer to any of these questions, this is the podcast episode for you!

Middle-aged men wanting to pursue and date young women is a desire (and practice) that has been around since the beginning of humanity.  As time has progressed, society as a whole, and women in particular, have grown to hate this fact of the dating world.  In this Ask Alex Q & A podcast episode, we try to answer why older men prefer dating younger women over women their same age.  We also discuss why men are not as emotionally expressive as women, and why men are turned off by women who are not affectionate.  If the answer to any of these questions is something you have always wanted to know, this is the episode for you!

The famous quote, "Women, can't live with them, can't live without them.", from the 14th-century philosopher, Desiderius Erasmus, rings just as true today, as the day he spoke those words. In this episode of the podcast, we discuss things that women wear that they think attracts men, that really repels men. We also discuss things that women do and say that have become normalized in 2022, that men privately dislike. If you want to know what things you do or wear that your friends and society approves of or promotes, that in actuality are pushing men away and keeping you single or in the FWB friends with benefits only category, this podcast is for you!

Doctor Willard F. Harley, Junior's classic relationship book His Needs Her Needs has sold over 4 million copies worldwide and has been used in countless marriage counseling groups and offices.  In this episode of the podcast, a married guest co-host and I detail the 5 most important needs most men have in marriage and serious long-term monogamous relationships, from multiple angles.  If you want to know what are the most important things you as a woman need to do, maintain, or improve to help better your relationship and give it the best chance at success, this is the episode for you!

Smart people learn from their mistakes, but wise people learn from other people's mistakes (and successes).  One of the best places to find knowledge about others' mistakes and details on their successes is self-help books.  In this podcast, we discuss 3 books that all listeners of this podcast should read, in order to improve their love life.  If you are interested in learning what books to read in order to learn how to pick Mr. Right, when to settle down, what standards are realistic and what standards should be eliminated, and/or how to maintain a happy serious long-term relationship, this is the podcast episode for you!

The current dating scene is little like it was during the latter half of the 20th century.  The dream many girls had of growing up and meeting their Mr. Right seemingly by happenstance while living her normal life, seems like it will never become reality.  In the previous two episodes of the podcast, we discussed the reasons why Pastor & Influencer RC Blakes, Jr thinks men do not approach women any more.  In this episode, I go into the other reasons why a woman might not get approached, that he failed to mention.  If you want to know the reasons you have control over, that men do not approach you  and/or  If you are curious about how modern social and technological changes in the 21st century have drastically reduced the number and frequency of men who romantically cold approach women...

Many women when they were little girls daydreamed about meeting the man of their dreams, naturally, while going through their daily routine.  This dream is not becoming a reality for an increasing number of women today, due to current day societal and social changes between men and women.  In this episode of the podcast, we conclude the pastor and Youtube influencer RC Blakes, Jr.'s list (and my commentary to it) detailing why men no longer approach women today, like they once did in the past. If you want to know what you can do to increase the chances that the guy you are interested in, approaches you and/or if you want to know why guys do not approach women today, as frequently or enthusiastically as they did in the past ...this podcast episode is for you!

Many women have daydreamed about meeting the man of their dreams, naturally, while going through their daily routine or spending time with their friends.  This dream can never become a reality without a man of quality, that she is interested in, romantically approaching her.  Unfortunately for women with this dream, men are approaching women, in person, less now than ever before.  In this episode of the podcast, I review and respond to a list of reasons why men no longer approach women today, as told by pastor and Youtube influencer RC Blakes, Jr.  If you want to know why guys do not approach today, as frequently or enthusiastically as they did in the past OR if you want to know what you can do to increase the chances that the guy you might be interested in, approaches you...this podcast episode is for you!

Many people who desire a healthy long-term relationship look to reasons outside of themselves as the cause of their disappointing romantic status, not reasons within.  In this podcast, we conclude the discussion started in the previous episode where we take a different approach and discuss reasons that you have control over, which can explain why you are single (or in a shallow short-term sub-optimal relationship).  If you want to hear the conclusion of a different perspective on why you might be struggling to get what you want romantically, take personal accountability, or you want to learn what exactly to change or improve about yourself or your mindset to raise your odds at landing the long-term love of your life...this podcast is for you! 

Many people who desire a healthy long-term relationship, but are not in one, point to reasons outside of themselves as the cause for their disappointing romantic status.  In this podcast, we take a different approach and discuss reasons that you have control over, which explain why you are single (or in dead-end or shallow short-term relationships).  If you want to hear a different perspective on why you might be struggling to get what you want romantically, take personal accountability, and know what exactly to change or improve about yourself or your mindset to raise your odds at landing the long-term love of your life...this podcast is for you!