What Iz He Thinking

Generally speaking, Men and Women approach dating differently.  Women tend to have a list of requirements/preferences that they want their prospective mate to have before they give them a real chance (as I discussed in the previous episode), while men tend to operate inversely to this, more so docking a potential mate for having or doing things he dislikes.  In this podcast, I meticulously describe the chronological chain of decisions and checks a single man consciously (or subconsciously) goes through from the first time he sets eyes on a woman, through the moment he decides to be monogamous.  I also discuss general philosophies, rules of thumb, and strategies men use during the dating process.  If you are curious about the male dating mindset and really want to know What He Iz Thinking, during the first conversation, during the first date, or after a handful of dates, this is the podcast for you!

Both men and women have a mental list of traits and characteristics that they most desire in their ideal romantic match.  There is a large group of women, however, that seem to think that just because a guy does not meet all of the items on their list, that they aren't a viable candidate for romance (according to many men).  In essence, "it would be nice" preferences and "he must have" requirements are being confused for one another.  In this podcast, I talk about the difference between preferences and requirements, how it is a mistake to have too many requirements when determining who you will give a romantic chance to, and I discuss the type of wishes or requirements that you SHOULD have.  If this sounds interesting to you or you have a laundry list of items a man must check off before you will date him (and because of this you spend most of your weekend nights home alone) this is the podcast for you!

Most women of today want the Hallmark Channel effortless love story that they have been exposed to since they were little girls watching Disney movies.  Most women want a traditional love story in a 21st-century world, but they do not actually know the behind the scenes elements of how people of yesteryear met and got together.  Many women of today have no problem being a modern go getter woman with everything in their life, except the most important thing.  If you want to know how women really found love 100, 200, 500 years ago (during these romanticized times), if you want to increase your chances at finding love, if you want to know strategies on how to present yourself (to potential suitors) without appearing desperate, this podcast is for you!

For most people, first dates are both nerve-racking and exciting at the same time.  One way to be less nervous about going out with someone for the first time is knowing exactly what they are looking for,  and what you should do (or not do) to leave a good first impression.  This podcast shares information on men's general dating approach, it details the top things that Men look for from a Woman during a first date, and also it offers tips of other things to do increase the chances he will ask you out again for a second date.  If you want to have better first dates and decrease the number of men (that you are interested in) who "ghost" on you, this podcast is for you!

Infidelity is on the rise in modern day relationships, but the main culprits for this surge are not who you might think.  The current dating culture in 2020 has made monogamy more difficult than it was in the past.   If you want to know what some of the literature says about current day cheating, if you want to know the top reasons why men cheat and/or if you want to know what to do to decrease the odds that you will be cheated on in YOUR relationship, this is the podcast for you!  (This episode is a continuation of the previous episode, so please listen to that episode before enjoying this one, if you want the full complete picture.)

Infidelity seems to be at an all-time high in our culture and is the number one fear most people have in their relationships.  The current dating culture in 2020 and the relaxed standards when it comes to sex has made monogamy more difficult than it was in the past.  Conventional wisdom says that most men are dogs and usually men are the perpetrators when it comes to cheating, but is that really true?  If you want to know what the current day cheating trends are, if you want to know the top reasons why men cheat and/or if you want to know what to do to decrease the odds that you will be cheated on, this is the podcast for you!

Online dating has exploded in popularity and acceptability in the last 10 years.  With the improvement in technology and the changes in our society, people meeting people to date "the old fashioned way" is more difficult than ever.  In this podcast, pointers are given to make your dating profile as attractive and intriguing as possible, in order to maximize your options and opportunities for romance.  Also, online dating strategies are presented in order to make online dating as safe as possible and to decrease the odds of being catfished.  If you want your dating  profile connections to be plentiful and your inbox to be jumping, if you want to stay safe when meeting people from the internet,  and/or if you want to use online dating to  find Mr. Right sooner, rather than later, this is the podcast for you!

Many women think that in order to attract the type of man they want they should make themselves exactly into the type of person THEY want to be with. This is not the best strategy to have.  21st Century western society has convinced both genders to act more similar to each other and this has done a number on dating and relationships.  In this podcast episode, we discuss the fact that men desire a compatible match that is different from them, not a twin.  We discuss the biological differences between men and women, the big 5 personality traits,  femininity and masculinity (and their relationship to each other), and other elements of your personality you should develop/enhance to be more desirable to men.  If you want to know more about the type of personalities men love the most OR if you want to know the essence, mindset, and traits that will increase your chances of getting the successful man you desire, this podcast is for you!

Back in the 90s, some individuals used to say "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" as a tongue in cheek reason explaining why men and women think and perceive the world drastically differently. In this episode of the podcast, specific questions from women regarding men are answered. Topics discussed include communication, clingy controlling insecure guys, and how a woman's love life is affected by her being extremely career-focused in a demanding industry. If any of the above sounds like something you would like to learn more about, this podcast is for you!