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Depression tanks your libido. Then you finally get help with antidepressants—and your sex drive tanks even more. If this is you, you're not broken. You're dealing with a real, common side effect that nobody wants to talk about.
In this episode, I break down the double whammy of depression and SSRIs on your sex life: how depression shuts down motivation (including for sex), why antidepressants compound the problem by affecting serotonin and dopamine, and how orgasm difficulties create a feedback loop that kills desire even further.
I also share my personal story—how I dealt with depression, the mental scripts generating self-hatred that my brain was trying to protect me from, and how I got off meds through coaching and massive self-compassion work. Literally re-writing the thoughts in my head changed everything.
We cover: what you can actually do about it (medication options, body-based approaches, relationship support), why this isn't your fault, and how to stop choosing between mental health and a satisfying sex life.
Quick note: I'm not a medical doctor—this is educational, not medical advice. Always talk to your doctor about medication decisions.
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By Laura Jurgens, Ph.D.5
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Depression tanks your libido. Then you finally get help with antidepressants—and your sex drive tanks even more. If this is you, you're not broken. You're dealing with a real, common side effect that nobody wants to talk about.
In this episode, I break down the double whammy of depression and SSRIs on your sex life: how depression shuts down motivation (including for sex), why antidepressants compound the problem by affecting serotonin and dopamine, and how orgasm difficulties create a feedback loop that kills desire even further.
I also share my personal story—how I dealt with depression, the mental scripts generating self-hatred that my brain was trying to protect me from, and how I got off meds through coaching and massive self-compassion work. Literally re-writing the thoughts in my head changed everything.
We cover: what you can actually do about it (medication options, body-based approaches, relationship support), why this isn't your fault, and how to stop choosing between mental health and a satisfying sex life.
Quick note: I'm not a medical doctor—this is educational, not medical advice. Always talk to your doctor about medication decisions.
🎙️ THE DESIRE GAP BRIDGE™ PROGRAM IS OPEN
10 spots through March 4th. Body-based, guaranteed coaching for desire gaps—for couples and individuals who've tried everything and are ready for real change. No blame, no shame.
Enroll by March 4th and receive 4 curated lesser-known books for desire discrepancy situations— the ones that actually move the needle.
Book a free consultation: https://laurajurgens.com/bridge
Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences
(Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at https://laurajurgens.com/libido
Find out more about my offerings and read the blog: https://laurajurgens.com/

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