What we lose in the Shadows (A father and daughter True Crime Podcast)

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What if the quiet neighborhoods of Visalia were hiding a dark secret? Join us as we unravel the chilling chronicles of California’s most infamous criminals in our latest episode of "What We Lose in the Shadows." We begin with a casual chat about the blistering heat in the Northeast and the delightful climate of San Diego—perfect for the American Library Association's conference. Caroline and I emphasize the importance of staying hydrated before we shift gears to discuss the notorious rise of crime in 1970s Visalia. Uncover the eerie transformation of the Cordova cat burglar into the East area rapist and beyond.

Prepare to be gripped by the harrowing accounts of those who survived the terror of the East Area Rapist, later unmasked as the Golden State Killer. Hear the stories of Phyllis Henneman and Jane Carson Sandler, whose courage and resilience in the face of unimaginable horrors are truly inspiring. We also highlight the pivotal role of true crime writer Michelle McNamara in bringing national attention to this case, which tragically ended with her passing in 2016. Finally, discover how detective Paul Holes used groundbreaking DNA technology to crack a case that had haunted California for decades. This episode promises a compelling exploration of criminal minds, the enduring spirit of survivors, and the relentless pursuit of justice.

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Can you imagine the horror of losing loved ones due to someone's reckless behavior? Brace yourself as we uncover the devastating case of Rebecca Grossman, a wealthy socialite who took the lives of two innocent children while driving under the influence. We'll discuss the trial, her recent conviction, and reflect on the dire need for responsible behavior to prevent such irreversible tragedies.

Next, we journey through the tragic story of Deja Maldondo, who found herself entangled in a nightmare after the death of her husband, Eli Dominguez. Brandon Toseland, a supposed friend, offered solace but soon turned manipulative and abusive, isolating Deja and controlling every aspect of her life. This episode sheds light on the red flags of toxic relationships and the immense difficulties victims face when seeking help. We'll also share personal anecdotes about interactions with law enforcement and the crucial role of a supportive network. The episode culminates with the gut-wrenching revelation of the abuser's role in the death of Deja's child, a stark reminder of the urgent need to recognize and act upon signs of abuse.

https://www.ktnv.com/news/crime/attorney-shares-timeline-leading-up-to-murder-of-a-4-year-old-boy

https://www.reviewjournal.com/crime/courts/mother-of-slain-child-tells-grand-jury-she-was-held-captive-for-months-2560184/

https://www.ktnv.com/news/crime/las-vegas-man-accused-of-murdering-4-year-old-claims-mother-colluded-in-hiding-the-body

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Can wrongful convictions shatter more than just a person's freedom? This episode of "What We Lose in the Shadows" peels back the layers of a tragic miscarriage of justice that forever altered the life of Anthony Broadwater.

We dive deep into the case of Alice Seaborn, a Syracuse University freshman who bravely reported her rape in May 1981. Despite her attacker being convicted, the truth took a devastating turn. Learn how a producer's relentless quest for justice and a private investigator's crucial role ultimately exonerated Broadwater after 16 long years. We explore the profound impact of such wrongful convictions on individuals' lives, highlighting Broadwater's struggles to reintegrate into society and his heartbreaking decision not to have children. This episode sheds light on the systemic flaws and biases that lead to such injustices, resonating with similar cases like the Central Park Five. Join us for a compelling reminder of why thorough and fair investigations are essential for true justice.

How an innocent Black man served time for the rape of author Alice Sebold | Race | The Guardian
NY to Pay Broadwater $5.5 Million After Wrongful Conviction for Sebold’s Rape - The New York Times (nytimes.com)

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The name Sean Combs, or should we say Brother Love, conjures an image of a chameleon in the music industry. This episode peels away at his ever-changing personas and the shadows cast by his fame. From his connections to notorious feuds and allegations of sexual misconduct, the weight of these claims underscores the power dynamics that play out in the courtrooms and beyond. The New York City Adult Services Act emerges as a beacon of hope, offering a path to justice for survivors. Yet, as we dissect these layers, the question of whether celebrity can tip the scales of justice looms large.

Scandals in high places. Homeland Security raid on Combs' home—pose the question of how power shields or fails to shield the elite. We scrutinize the role of upbringing within celebrity culture, especially when it comes to the development of youths like Christian Combs. And as I share my skepticism on Diddy's proclaimed innocence, we invite you to keep the conversation alive on Instagram. Be part of our journey as Caroline and I continue to spotlight the intricate intersections of crime, influence, and the pursuit of justice.

Diddy's Homes Police Raid Detailed in Photos (newsweek.com)
Diddy home raid footage leaked by ex-girlfriend who slams federal agents for ‘terrorizing’ their sons | The Independent

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This episode is not for the faint of heart, as we dissect the long-unsolved Lady of the Dunes mystery, bringing to light evidence that may finally close this cold case. With every word, we stitch together the sinister and the procedural, taking you through the twists and turns of a narrative that's just as much about the resilience of human spirit as it is about the darkness that lies within. Follow us on Instagram @whatweloseintheshadows to see the photos that bind these stories together and share your own insights. Reserve your Tuesdays with us when we'll continue to cast light on the stories that time forgot, but justice remembers.

Details about husband sought in 50-year 'Lady of the Dunes' cold case - ABC News (go.com)
The 'Lady of the Dunes' has been identified after nearly 50 years. Now, police want info about her husband. (nbcnews.com)

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The hallways of schools should be passages to learning and growth, not battlegrounds where LGBTQ+ youth fight for acceptance. We tackle the issue of bullying, the grave risks involved in mandated reporting, and the heart-wrenching consequences it can have when a young person is forced out of the shadows into an unaccepting world. Tragedy strikes a somber chord as we recount the lost lives of Nex Benedict and Brianna Jai, symbolizing the stark reality of what happens when societal support systems fail. Their stories are not just tales of sorrow, but a call to action for the importance of creating inclusive environments that nurture every student, and the urgent need for support that can mean the difference between life and death.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Nex_Benedict

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/oklahoma-anti-trans-bathroom-bill-b2500559.html

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 On this episode we walk you through the unsettling murder of Brianna Ghey—a young life stolen by the hands of hate. We’re not just narrating the somber tale of a teen whose existence was cut short by transphobic violence; we're engaging in a profound discourse on the societal and legal entanglements that continue to challenge the transgender community, bringing to light the stark realities we must confront. With a heartfelt focus on the impact such a loss imposes not just on a family but a worldwide fellowship, our dialogue extends an empathetic hand to those grappling with similar adversities.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Brianna_Ghey

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2024/feb/02/brianna-ghey-murderers-named-sentenced-to-life-in-prison

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A man says he has a bomb on a commercial aircraft.  We have seen it in movies for decades, but where did it all start.  We take a deep dive into the lore of DB Cooper and the implementation of the 'DB Cooper device'. We then explore the audacious copycat hijackings, leading to a broader discourse on the evolution of airport security. Intrigue peaks as we examine a new theory about Cooper's possible identity—a theory that could rewrite the history books. This episode promises to leave you with a profound understanding of the complexities of societal challenges and criminal exploits that have reshaped our world.

D.B. Cooper Hijacking — FBI
D.B. Cooper: Biography, Plane Hijacker, Suspects
Skyjack: The Hunt for D.B Cooper- Geoffrey Gray

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 This week we traverse this heartrending terrain, beginning with the case of mommy vlogger Ruby Frankie. Her egregious parenting tactics, which incited widespread fury, raise pivotal questions about the unseen scars inflicted upon children in the name of discipline, and the haunting legacy such actions leave.

Caroline and I also confront the grim tale of Ruby Frankie and Jody Hildebrandt, whose online platform became a facade for unthinkable acts of cruelty. Our conversation takes an investigative turn as we recount the neighbor's critical role in unveiling the truth and the ensuing battle for justice. We grapple with the specter of narcissistic parenting and its selective devastation, contrasting against the legal system's capacity to advocate for those too small to stand for themselves. This candid dialogue seeks not just to uncover but to provoke a deeper contemplation on safeguarding our most vulnerable against the silent epidemic of child abuse.

https://www.the-sun.com/news/10447242/ruby-franke-youtuber-sentenced-child-abuse/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-narcissist-in-your-life/202202/8-types-of-children-scapegoated-in-narcissistic-families#:~:text=In%20simple%20terms%2C%20a%20scapegoat,singled%20out%20for%20ongoing%20scapegoating.

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This week we tread carefully into sensitive territory, with a content warning for discussions on rape and sexual assault, as we scrutinize the shocking actions of Danny Masterson. Known for his role on "That '70s Show," Masterson's conviction and the bravery of the two victims who brought him to Justus. Shifting the lens to celebrity crime, we grapple with the question of whether fame influences the scales of justice. 

Danny Masterson sentenced to 30 years to life in prison in rape case | CNN
Danny Masterson sentenced to 30 years to life for rapes - Los Angeles Times (latimes.com)

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