Today I am joined by the wonderful Lotte Bowser. I first heard about Lotte and her fiancé Ben’s love story in the summer of 2020 when Ben was undergoing treatment for stage 3 soft tissue sarcoma, an extremely rare type of cancer. Later that year, their journey led them to Mexico where Ben began to receive treatment at a specialist centre in Tijuana.
Heartbreakingly just as things were beginning to look hopeful, Ben contracted coronavirus and passed away. And here began Lotte’s unfathomable journey into widowhood, at just 30 years old.
In this episode Lotte and I chat about her and Ben’s unconditional and purest kind of love and how it evolved pre and post diagnosis. We also discuss how the use of psychedelics has been paramount in helping Lotte understand that there is so much more to be explored after we leave our physical bodies.
The way Lotte speaks and writes about love and grief has touched the hearts of thousands of people and so, if you’ve experienced partner loss or are in the midst of grief right now, I hope this episode helps in even just the smallest way possible.
Lotte: @lottebowser
Me: @laurajenkinson