I said something ableist to someone I admire
Welcome to What’s The Matter With Me? Podcast Season 6 Episode 32, “Disability Consciousness”
In this episode, I reflect on the time I said something ableist to someone I admire, the drummer in deerhoof, what I might say (or not) now that I’ve spent some time working on my disability consciousness. I hope I might come up with something better. Also, Botox, falling and the first law of success, “Do You!”
Disability Consciousness
One time I ate with deerhoof and I said something ableist Because I didn’t yet have disability consciousnessHow it is in Hayward
How it is in Hayward across from El Pollo Loco…It’s weird when the Garden Center is a cinderblock building with no windowsRIP
rip gorbachev – gorby – commie pinkorip chowhoundExtra
I had BotoxIt’s a lot of injectionsShout Outs
shout outs to Kevin at Under the cowl of MS. He mentioned What’s The Matter With Me? Podcast and Hoppin Hot Sauce in one of his YouTube videos. Kevin reviews comic booksWilliams Sonoma reordered Hoppin Hot Sauce for the western regionMention Hoppin Hot Sauce and What’s The Matter With Me? Podcast in any and all settingsshout outs rocky and claude hopper for technical support- as always, if you see something say somethingDo You
#1 in Russell Simmons’ Laws of Success is “Do You!”Falling
I have been falling a lot. One time I was flicking the switch in the bathroom and i ended up facing the wall with my back to the toiletDeerhoof Show
I want to go see deerhoof in San Jose at the ritz in October, on october 22Should I take my wheelchair?Do you want to meet me there?They are playing San Francisco the night b4 but I like going to things in San JoseBlack T Shirt
I had BotoxIt’s quite a lot of injectionsThe nurse talks to you and the doctors say “123 poke”In my trapezius- shoulder area, in my pectoral area, in my bicep and forearmOf course I was wearing a white tee shirt not a black oneNote to self: wear a black t shirt for BotoxThe injections get stronger over a week and then they last about 6 weeks before trailing offI showed them my puppet video In the kitchenhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFvbiI_yKBs
Happy Birthday Nathan
I said something
One time I ate with deerhoof and i said something ableistI didn’t have disability consciousnessone time I ate brunch with the member of deerhoof at a cafe called Brown on the lower East SideI was dating a woman who knew themThe drummer appeared to have something like torrette’s syndromeHe said things and made sounds and physical motions that were Kind of like tourettesI didn’t have a lot of disability consciousness back thenI think I asked him, “Hey man, what’s wrong with you?”The guitar player was also there and he just giggledIt was awkwardI had lived with someone already who had Tourette’s syndrome so I recognized the signs but lacked disability consciousness to form my question properlyI think if I had it over again I would probably not ask anythingOr I could say what I observed, like something like, “I notice that you are moving a lot and making sounds.”And maybe that would be enough to get whatever answer I felt that I neededIt’s kind of like asking someone that you observed many rolls of flesh and pendulous thighs and expecting them to tell you they’re fat.I certainly wouldn’t ask him Hey man what’s wrong with youI think if I had it over I wouldn’t ask him anythingThis Week’s Selfie: