In this episode host Trina Laird talks about something that many people going through a midlife crisis divorce experience but almost no one talks about openly and that is when the AP doesn't just enter the picture, they try to replace the former spouse! They try to step into your role, your family, your history, your children ...as if the past 20, 30, 40 years never happened. The AP often mistakes proximity for destiny yet they are simply an integral part of someone in mlc who is trying to navigate the chaotic waters of this crisis. The AP is actually the temporary life raft they must cling to in order to survive the storm.