Anxious for marriage, thirty-five year old women are asking the question, “Where are all the good men?”  The problem of delayed marriage is a consequence of a much larger and much more tangled web of social sins and contagions. It’s not wrong to put off marriage, but it’s just plain wrong to put off marriage for the wrong reasons.  There seems to be a concern about maturity and manliness, but what is this?   The Scriptures give us a picture of faith, sobriety, and doing the things God wants a man to do.