When it comes to marriage, parenting, and household rhythms, how do you decide who stays home with the kids—and does the Bible give us a clear answer? This episode was sparked by a listener’s thoughtful question, and it opens up a rich, honest conversation between Jimmy and Kelly about work, gender roles, home life, and how Scripture speaks into modern family dynamics.

Rather than offering one-size-fits-all rules, Jimmy and Kelly explore:

• What work actually means from a biblical perspective (hint: it’s not just about getting a paycheck)
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• Why both men and women are called to be “homeward” in their orientation
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• Whether Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 offer mandates or models
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• How biology, seasons of life, and spiritual maturity shape our roles
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• The trap of devaluing “hidden” work, and how God sees it differently
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You’ll hear personal stories from their own marriage—including seasons where roles shifted drastically—and how community, prayer, and mutual submission have helped guide their decisions. This is a nuanced, compassionate discussion that holds tight to Scripture while allowing for grace, complexity, and real-life application.

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• Gender Roles Q&A
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• Women in the Home, Mental Health & Small Group Leaders
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• Complementarianism (and Other Short Words)