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  • "Brandon Purdy: The Healing Power of Music & Discovering Creativity in Spirituality" | EP054

    In this episode, we sit down with musician Brandon Purdy to dive into the healing power of music, creativity, and spirituality. Brandon shares how loss and personal struggles reshaped his artistic journey, transitioning from making “hollow” music to creating songs with real meaning. We explore the importance of reconnecting with childhood passions, the influence of legends like Prince and Michael Jackson, and the creative battles with comparison and perfectionism.

    Brandon opens up about meditation, journaling, and the impact of Rick Rubin’s "The Creative Act" in keeping his creativity centered. We discuss how psychedelics, breathwork, and spirituality have helped us process grief and trauma, as well as the role of forgiveness and gratitude in moving forward. This conversation is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey of self-expression, healing, and the realization that as long as you’re still in the game, you’re winning.

    Listen to Brandon's newest single "Keep Going" here:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDAdIQEHUHs
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    0:00 This weeks guest, musician Brandon Purdy

    3:00 dealing with loss through the expression of music

    5:00 Transitioning from making “hollow” music to meaningful expression through a creative rebrand

    6:30 what sparked the newfound authenticity and being able to share your music with everybody of all ages

    9:00 reconnecting with the things you loved as a child, for Brandon it was dancing

    12:30 You don’t know how many people you’re helping without even knowing it

    15:00 Being inspired by the greats like Prince and Michael Jackson and learning new skills and instruments 

    17:00 Wrestling with creativity when comparison and perfectionism creeps in

    22:00 Journaling and reading “the creative act” by Rick Rubin to keep your creativity centered

    26:00 the power of putting pen to paper and getting your thoughts out in the open

    30:00 the spiritual process of finding your flow

    35:00 Making a connection with spirituality

    39:00 the importance of meditation and noticing your own thoughts

    41:30 the shit I was doing, I shouldn’t be alive, but somehow, I’m here

    43:20 nobody knows shit, we’re all just trying to figure all of this out

    45:00 Dealing with loss as the world keeps going

    48:00 the power of psychedelics and dealing with your past with intention 

    55:00 Dealing with guilt around loss and giving yourself forgiveness for the past that can’t be changed

    1:01:45 nothing bad is going to come from being honest

    1:04:00 unleashing the power of your mind and body in breath work and the wim hof method

    1:08:00 Getting out of your own head and into your body so you can release trauma

    1:12:00 forming gratitude around the small things 


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    1 hr 22 min
  • "LMSW Nina Lugo: The Reality of Social Work, Mental Health Stigmas & Learning Coping Skills" | EP053

    In this episode, we welcome Licensed Master Social Worker Nina Lugo, a passionate social worker making a difference in the lives of students, parents, and educators. Nina opens up about the realities of social work, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional toll that comes with helping others navigate life's challenges.

    We explore how social work extends beyond just students—supporting parents and coworkers is just as important. Nina shares how she approaches tough conversations, from guiding parents through difficult truths about their children to breaking the stigma around mental illness and helping kids develop healthy coping mechanisms.

    We also dive into the state of the education system, the lack of essential life skills being taught in schools, and the pressing need for more mental health resources and role models for young men. Nina emphasizes how anxiety and fear are normal emotions that shouldn’t be demonized and how reframing conversations around mental health can help dismantle outdated stereotypes—especially regarding men and emotional expression.

    Throughout this conversation, Nina offers incredible insight into self-care as a social worker, the struggles of keeping work stress from creeping into personal life, and the importance of being in this field for the outcome, not the income.

    This is a raw, honest discussion about mental health, resilience, and the people working behind the scenes to create lasting change.

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    1 hr 46 min
  • “Big News, Bigger Feelings: Life-Changing Moments & the Road to Fatherhood” | EP052

    This episode is a big one. An important one. Our most personal one yet.

    We told you we were gonna cry today—and for good reason. Steve is having a baby, and we dive deep into the whirlwind of emotions that come with it. Excitement, nerves, and the realization that life is about to change forever. We talk about giving up vices when major life shifts happen, the risks and rewards of big decisions, and the responsibility of breaking family patterns when bringing a new life into the world.

    Plus, a little debate on what the baby is gonna call Uncle JP, and why Knocked Up just became required viewing.

    This one’s real, raw, and straight from the heart. Tune in. 💙


    0:30 I told you we were gonna cry today

    2:00 Steve is having a baby

    5:40 Excitement and nerves go hand in hand in these moments

    12:00 Giving up your vices when life changing events come along

    17:00 Risks always have rewards in these situations

    18:50 Live Podcast from the Delivery room?

    22:00 How are you excited to prepare for this baby on the way?

    25:30 Breaking the patterns of yourself and your family when bringing a new life into the world

    30:00 Wondering what the baby is gonna call Uncle JP

    40:00 Now we gotta watch “Knocked Up” before the baby comes

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    42 min
  • "Trusting Yourself, Taking Risks & Updates on Consistency" EP051

    In this episode, we dive into the environments that fuel our best work, the luxury of staying ahead, and the mindset shifts that help us keep going. We reflect on learning to trust ourselves, overcoming perfectionism (“Perfectionism is better spelled paralysis” – Winston Churchill), and embracing where we are while recognizing how far we've come. From Kobe Bryant’s lessons in discipline to the importance of taking risks in life, career, and money, this conversation is all about persistence, self-belief, and the power of consistency. Plus, we ask: what if we were 52 weeks ahead on the podcast? Tune in for an inspiring, thought-provoking episode!

    1:00 What environment do you do your best work in?

    4:30 the luxury of being ahead on the podcast

    6:00 How’s your heart? & learning to trust yourself

    10:00 the power that comes from not giving up

    14:00 “Perfectionism is better spelled paralysis” -Winston Churchill 

    16:30 this podcast is just two guys doing a Rick Rubin impression

    19:00 The excitement of having things to look forward to

    20:15 Embrace where you’re and recognize how far you’ve come

    22:00 The power of seeing our consistency pay off

    26:44 Learning a lesson from Kobe Bryant and the 2008 USA basketball team

    28:55 Life is all about taking risks, in money, in your career, in your personal life

    31:00 what would it be like to be 52 weeks ahead on the podcast

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    34 min
  • "Rayvin Rey: Overcoming Scarcity, Embracing Patience, & Finding Your Soulmate” EP050 (Pt. 2)

    In part two of our conversation with Rayvin Rey, we explore powerful insights on overcoming scarcity mindsets and embracing patience in personal growth. Rayvin shares her thoughts on finding alignment outside of relationships, balancing happiness with financial success, and breaking free from childhood beliefs about money. We discuss how physical activity can help manage stress, the importance of authentic self-expression, and the value of building a supportive community. Rayvin opens up about self-love, giving yourself the care you often seek from others, and nurturing meaningful relationships through attention, space, and listening. She also shares lessons from “The Alchemist” and her take on staying true to yourself, all while reflecting on the deeper meaning of love and how being your own soulmate is the foundation for everything. This episode is packed with wisdom, inspiration, and heartfelt moments you won’t want to miss!

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayvin_rey/

    Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@rayvinrey24

    And support her podcast "The Self Love Sanctuary" here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxW0FumW1ZkNFdsItSGwZ
    or here
    Timestamps:

    • 00:45 Changing the view around your 9 to 5 job and fulfilling your passions
    • 3:30 Getting in alignment with yourself outside of a relationship
    • 4:30 What’s more important? Happy relationships or making money?
    • 6:00 Focusing on lack and losing the “must be nice” mentality
    • 8:00 Fighting back against the money and scarcity beliefs that you grew up around
    • 13:00 The struggle of striving to make something you love doing profitable
    • 14:00 Regulating your attention span in a world of quick gratification
    • 16:15 Patience with yourself and how it applies to personal growth
    • 19:45 Using physical activity to handle mental stress
    • 25:00 Sharing authentically while trying to improve, learn, and grow a community
    • 27:30 "You don’t want 50 million fans. You want 5,000 people who care."
    • 29:20 Lessons from Russ, Mike, and "The Alchemist" on being true to yourself
    • 35:50 Conquering hard things is in the little things
    • 40:00 Shameless plug for Whoop
    • 45:30 Nighttime wind-down routine with stream-of-consciousness journaling
    • 48:00 Giving yourself the love you desire so badly from others in relationships
    • 51:30 The expression of love by listening to your partner’s podcast (if they have one)
    • 55:30 True love is giving your partner the space they need
    • 59:00 Conquering the shame of hurting someone the way you were hurt
    • 1:02:00 The power of showing your partner attention
    • 1:10:00 Should we call this episode “How to Find Your Soulmate?”
    • 1:14:00 Your soulmate is yourself
    • 1:15:00 Rayvin’s council

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    1 hr 22 min
  • "Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1)

    "Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1)

    In this episode, we sit down with our longtime friend and inspiring guest, Rayvin Rey, to explore the transformative power of unlearning, self-love, and personal growth. Rayvin shares her journey of shifting her baseline from negativity to positivity, using daily meditation practices like mirror meditations, and breaking free from the shackles of perfectionism.

    We dive into the importance of self-awareness in relationships—when to stop trying to change others and how character defines what we value most. Rayvin also opens up about rebuilding tough family relationships, handling shame, and navigating the ever-changing nature of life.

    From tackling negative self-talk to finding authenticity and inspiring others to do the same, this episode is packed with heartfelt wisdom, practical advice, and powerful reflections. Whether you’re struggling with perfectionism, relationships, or self-doubt, Rayvin’s perspective will resonate deeply and inspire you to embrace yourself fully.

    Tune in to hear about self-compassion, navigating shame’s impact on our view of money, and so much more! Don’t miss this uplifting and thought-provoking conversation.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayvin_rey/

    And support her podcast "The Self Love Sanctuary" here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxW0FumW1ZkNFdsItSGwZ

    2:50 – What was it like being friends with Steve and JP many years ago?
    8:00 – Who is Rayvin Rey, and what is her path?
    11:15 – The power of unlearning as you get older.
    12:00 – Transforming your baseline from negative to positive.
    16:00 – Cultivating awareness to catch yourself in the moment.
    17:30 – Exploring mirror meditations and using meditation daily.
    19:00 – Avoiding staleness by switching up your routine.
    21:00 – Practicing self-love and accepting yourself for who you really are.
    24:00 – Knowing that you are enough as you are.
    25:00 – Tapping into your authenticity to inspire others.
    30:00 – Recognizing self-awareness in your relationships and knowing when to stop trying to change others.
    35:35 – How character shapes what you value in a relationship.
    36:40 – Rebuilding tough relationships with your family.
    39:00 – Avoiding stonewalling the people closest to you.
    41:00 – Embracing change as the only constant in life.
    52:00 – Dealing with rumination and practicing self-compassion.
    54:30 – Handling negative self-talk with kindness and care.
    57:00 – The daunting nature of perfectionism in all areas of life.
    57:45 – “If I stop putting stuff out right now, people will only see the beginning.”
    1:04:50 – Coming to terms with how you view shame.
    1:19:00 – How shame changes our perspective on money.

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    1 hr 32 min
  • “Karate Master Joe Fry: Crushing Self Doubt, Building Confidence & Embracing Sensitivity” EP049

    This week, we’re thrilled to bring you a very special episode, recorded live from the dojo with our longtime friend and karate master, Joe Fry! Joe is not only the owner of a thriving karate studio and a 5th degree black belt, but also a dedicated mentor, parent, and entrepreneur. In this episode, he shares his incredible journey of resilience, self-discovery, and teaching life lessons through martial arts.
    We dive deep into Joe’s story, starting with his childhood experiences of bullying and how they inspired him to embrace karate as a path to confidence and strength. He shares his philosophy of getting "1% better every day" and how martial arts has shaped his approach to life, parenting, and business. Whether it's battling imposter syndrome or staying accountable, Joe’s insights are powerful and relatable.
    The Impact of Teaching on Parenting: How working with students influenced Joe’s approach as a father.
    Overcoming Obstacles: The mental and physical discipline needed to own a business and navigate life's challenges.
    Building Confidence Through Karate: How martial arts empowers students to develop self-assurance and resilience.
    Battling Self-Doubt: Confronting imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and self-doubt while staying accountable.
    Physical and Mental Well-Being: Balancing fitness, mindfulness, and rest to avoid burnout and improve mental health.
    Finding Meaning in Spirituality and Nature: How staying present and embracing curiosity can lead to personal growth.
    Deep Questions About Life: Joe asks us thought-provoking questions like, “Would your 10-year-old self be proud of you?”
    Joe’s honest reflections about running a business, navigating fatherhood, and striving for personal growth will leave you inspired to take on your own challenges with confidence and clarity. Plus, he shares advice on how to avoid staleness in your physical activities, why good sleep and nutrition matter, and how spirituality connects us to something bigger.

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    1:40 - Live from the dojo with Joe Fry
    5:00 - Teaching shaping parenting
    7:00 - Partnering with your spouse
    9:25 - Childhood bullying
    11:00 - Pushing your body young
    12:30 - 1% better daily
    14:00 - Challenges of owning a business
    15:56 - Overcoming obstacles
    17:15 - Separating work and family
    18:15 - Finding yourself in the pandemic
    20:26 - Karate and confidence
    23:11 - Inspiring student growth
    26:15 - Imposter syndrome and self-doubt
    28:00 - Staying accountable
    29:25 - Living in the present
    31:00 - Physical health for mental well-being
    33:50 - Aging and injuries
    35:27 - Avoiding staleness
    37:45 - Sleep and nutrition
    39:30 - Masculinity and sensitivity
    44:00 - Providing beyond finances
    47:30 - Spirituality in nature
    52:30 - Keep learning and exploring
    54:37 - Joey’s questions
    59:45 - Would 10-year-old you be proud?
    1:02:15 - Sparking change
    1:11:50 - Joey’s advisors
    1:15:30 - Be kind and embrace life

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    1 hr 19 min
  • "New Year Reset: Ryan Holiday’s Stoic Wisdom, Breaking Bad Habits & Crushing 2025 Goals"

    It’s a New Year, and we’re starting 2025 by looking back at everything we learned in 2024. We talk about how one of us made the life-changing decision to get sober, and how that single choice improved not only our personal lives but the direction and consistency of this podcast. We also reflect on the massive growth we’ve seen since taking the podcast seriously  in August—more views, more watch time, and way more subscribers.

    As for 2025? We’ve got big goals. We’re saying goodbye to bad habits (yes, we’re giving up the weed), doubling down on self-discipline, and focusing on showing up for ourselves and our audience in bigger, better ways. We dive into how we plan to tackle personal growth, like being more present, overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, and leaning into authenticity—even when it’s uncomfortable.

    We also talk about getting deeper spiritually, with one of us committing to explore their relationship with God and purpose by diving into philosophical and religious texts. On the professional side, we’re excited to improve the podcast even more by bringing in new guests, engaging with our listeners, and staying consistent in everything we do.

    This episode is full of real talk—about the challenges of staying grounded, learning from failure, and balancing life while chasing your dreams. It’s an honest look at where we’ve been, where we’re headed, and how we plan to make 2025 a year of transformation. Tune in, and let’s take this journey together!

    00:10 - Time Jump in Our Podcast Schedule!
    01:00 - Yearly Recap: Reflecting on Our Podcast Journey

    Personal Growth & Achievements
    01:31 - Podcast Growth Since August 2024: Our Numbers!
    03:09 - Consistency & Dedication: The Secret to Success
    03:40 - How Sobriety Changed Our Personal & Professional Lives
    04:44 - Sober Life Reflections: More Than Just a Change in Routine
    05:59 - Sobriety Struggles: The Ups and Downs

    Challenges & Reflections
    10:00 - Action vs. Overthinking: Lessons Learned
    11:30 - Embracing Not Knowing Everything
    12:22 - Spending Time Alone to Grow & Reflect
    14:27 - Focusing on Trust & Intuition
    18:15 - Take Action Now: Don’t Wait for the Perfect Moment
    20:00 - How Physical Exercise Boosts Mental Health
    25:01 - Wishing We’d Focused More on the Podcast Sooner

    Goals & Intentions for 2025
    31:00 - Asking for Help & Managing Emotions Better
    35:00 - Staying Present: The Power of Focus
    40:00 - Quitting Bad Habits (Like Weed) for a Healthier Life
    50:00 - Breaking Free From Vices: The Struggle to Stay Strong

    Philosophical & Spiritual Exploration
    01:22:41 - Exploring My Relationship with God & Spirituality
    01:24:05 - Trusting the Universe: A Spiritual Discussion
    01:27:00 - Diving Into Religious & Philosophical Texts for Deeper Insight

    Podcast Improvements & Audience Engagement
    01:35:30 - Big Thanks to Our Audience: Your Support Means the World!
    01:36:01 - Huge Plans for the Podcast in 2025—Guests, Growth & More!

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    1 hr 39 min
  • "Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger" | Episode #048

    "Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger | Episode #048

    This week, we’re digging into the big stuff—like how to handle displaced anger, break free from people-pleasing, and challenge outdated stereotypes about masculinity. We explore how mindfulness and gratitude can help you stay grounded, even when life throws you a curveball. Plus, we dive into how noticing your irritability and physically grounding yourself can shift your mindset in powerful ways.

    On the practical side, we share tips for eliminating brain fog in the morning, celebrating the growth of others, and learning how to stop caring what people think about your lifestyle choices. And, as always, we sprinkle in some chaos: Steve gets fired up about perseverance, JP confesses his undying love for Kendrick Lamar’s "GNX," and we brainstorm whether advertising on a Macy’s Day Parade float could be the ultimate power move.

    Life’s unpredictable, so why not celebrate the wins, rethink what’s possible, and laugh along the way? Tune in for honest reflections, actionable advice, and a few ridiculous ideas that might just inspire you.

    00:18 Guests are coming

    3:25 Bringing our audience unique and interesting perspectives

    9:45 Awareness around how you treat strangers when you aren’t feeling your best

    11:40 Dealing w/ Displaced Anger

    13:15 Society stereotypes about masculinity

    15:45 Disciplined mindfulness

    18:00 Running in the Rain

    20:15 Being your own support system

    22:00 People pleasing

    26:30 Rejoicing in the growth of others

    29:30 Not caring what people think about your lifestyle choices

    31:25 Noticing your irritability

    35:15 Nothing is guaranteed in this life

    38:30 Physically Grounding yourself in gratitude

    43:00 Come back to this video on episode 4,000

    46:55 “I want the Whoop AI to be my friend”

    47:30 Steve loves the idea of perseverance 

    48:55 JP is very grateful for Kendrick Lamar’s “GNX”

    53:00 Eliminating Brain fog in the morning 

    58:00 Should we advertise on a Macy’s Day Parade Float??

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    1 hr 4 min
  • “The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey" | EP 047

    “The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey | EP 047

    We’re back, and we’re leveling up. In this episode, we recap Will McGuire’s last visit, hype up our plans to bring on new, fascinating guests, and celebrate sticking with this podcast journey. Spoiler alert: we’re kind of proud of ourselves.

    We dive into the life hacks that are changing our game: yoga for better sleep, avoiding your phone in the morning, and hypnotizing yourself into becoming the best version of you.

    Along the way, we tackle some hard truths: stop half-assing things (shoutout #MatthewMcConaughey), control the controllable (thanks, John Cena), and admit that scrolling on social media might be ruining your brain (yikes). But hey, Deepak Chopra says you do have enough time to meditate, so there’s hope.

    As always, we sprinkle in some ridiculous tangents—color TV is the root of all evil, #veganrecipes  are everywhere on our Instagram feed, and apparently Tom Glavine is the number 47 GOAT. Plus, every time you watch our #podcast , you’re helping us feed our dogs. What’s not to love?

    2:00 Recap of Will’s previous episode, More guests are coming
    6:00 Expanding our podcast
    8:20 Proving to ourselves that we could stick with the podcast consistently
    9:15 We’re looking for new and interesting guests
    12:10 Wanted Ad: Looking for Good Person
    14:50 “You can’t shoot for the moon when you don’t even work at nasa yet” 
    20:00 Taking stock of the progress we’ve made so far
    23:00 Incorporating yoga to improve your sleep cycle and circadian rhythm
    24:40 Avoiding being on your #smartphone right away in the morning hours
    26:30 Beta and alpha brain states and hypnotizing yourself to be the best version 
    29:20 the importance of keeping your body in peak condition 
    29:45 Our podcast instagram news feed is just #veganrecipes
    31:00 Discussing how proud we are of our whoop scores
    32:35 Giving up wrestling for yoga? No fucking way
    33:50 Little habits make big gains
    34:50 Your future self will thank you for putting in the work 
    35:22 stop half assing things and don’t bullshit yourself- Matthew McConaughey 
    36:50 Color TV is the root of all evil 
    37:55 the science behind scrolling on socials and comparing yourself to others 38:55 becoming aware of the fact that many of our problems have ourselves at the root #selfreflection
    39:10 Deepak Chopra says you do have enough time to meditate
    41:29 Consuming our podcast mindfully is better for you than mindlessly scrolling on TikTok
    43:00 Nothing like a spirited conversation to get the podcast going
    43:10 What could happen or change in your life if you cut your screen time down
    45:00 Watch our podcast so we can feed our dogs
    46:35 “Control the controllable” - John Cena
    47:00 Tom Glavine is indeed number 47, Troy Percival is not
    47:35 Shoutout to angels in the outfield and #MatthewMcConaughey

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"Who Thought We'd Be Here" is a podcast about changing your mind, redefining the stigma around mental health, and living a vulnerable and productive lifestyle.

Both seeking answers from the…