Whore-oscopes

Welcome back to Whore-oscopes! We have an exciting episode because Nia, our saucy host, has a guest and fellow Substacker, Dana (@TaeHungz) of TikTok.

Dana is an astrologer specializing in political and liberation astrology and she's decided to spill all the tea on the pod about what we can expect considering what's already occurred. We discuss her astrology origin story, what transits and aspects are worth watching and how we can use this tool to better prepare for our future.

If you want to catch up with Dana elsewhere, make sure you're keeping up with her on social media (@TaeHungz) and subscribe to their substack Fourth World Oasis.

https://rahuvia.substack.com

If you'd like to keep up with me, I'm on most socials (@ShakingSheets) and on Substack was well.

https://thatdeep.substack.com

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Until next time!

On this episode of Whore-oscopes, Nia Òla (she/they) discusses the history of dating, it’s roots in sex work and why we need to be interacting with it (and its past) honestly, in order to get out of this discontent expressed by the masses.

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As always That Deep is Nia’s Substack and one of the ways this work is supported so if you’re not already over there… spare them a subscription. You’ve spent $5 on worse, don’t act silly now.

If you’d like to submit a question for me to offer you advice on, the link to do so is the first in the sources of my show notes. Your question will be aired on the 25th in the Crystal Ball Talk episode. *I don’t answer questions regarding legal or medical matters.

Sources:

https://form.jotform.com/242464812784059

https://thatdeep.substack.com/

https://www.grandviewresearch.com/industry-analysis/online-dating-market-report#:~:text=The global online dating market size was estimated at USD,USD 10.49 billion in 2023

Weigel, M. (2017). Labor of Love: The Invention of Dating. Farrar, Straus and Giroux.

https://www.npr.org/2024/02/14/1231513991/tinder-hinge-match-group-lawsuit

https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/24427323-match-group-complaint

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/01/style/tiktok-dating-ghosting.html

In this episode, Nia Òla has Crystal Ball Talk, where listener submitted questions are read and answered. For the premiere of this segment, topics discussed include: media literacy, what taking accountability looks like, how to date when afraid, polyamory and more.

If you enjoyed yourself, don’t forget to like, favorite, share and comment.

That Deep is Nia’s Substack and one of the ways this work is supported so if you’re not already over there… spare them a subscription. You’ve spent $5 on worse, don’t act silly now.

Sources:

https://form.jotform.com/242464812784059

https://leavingevidence.wordpress.com/2019/12/18/how-to-give-a-good-apology-part-1-the-four-parts-of-accountability/

https://thatdeep.substack.com/p/a-chainsaw-of-lace

https://bookshop.org/p/books/more-than-two-cultivating-nonmonogamous-relationships-with-kindness-and-integrity-eve-rickert/20964103?ean=9781990869587

https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-ethical-slut-third-edition-a-practical-guide-to-polyamory-open-relationships-and-other-freedoms-in-sex-and-love-revised-janet-w-hardy/11368130?ean=9780399579660

https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-and-the-polysecure-workbook-bundle-jessica-fern/18957281?ean=9781990869365

https://youtu.be/9IM1AEbnGX4?si=eHuLN1KFU-rbdd_l

https://youtu.be/01ZXMrPGMyA?si=FrZ8l_6Belaf0XIZ

In this episode, Nia Òla (she/they) explores infidelity as a recovering mistress using personal insights combined with anthropological and sociological study of why we slip and slide. She also regales you with the tale of her first time being a mistress, a story you wouldn't want to miss.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to like, comment, follow and share with your friends.

To be included in Crystal Ball (the advice column segment airing on the 25th of every month), don't forget to fill out this form attached. Note: They don't answer questions of the medical or legal variety.

⁠https://form.jotform.com/242464812784059⁠

Don't forget to subscribe to her Substack, That Deep for access to long form essays, narrative short stories and other written musings. The paid tier is currently watching Interview With A Vampire weekly with her so if you'd like to talk tv, this is a good time to get in!

⁠https://thatdeep.substack.com/⁠

Sources for this episode:

⁠https://www.statista.com/statistics/1367073/us-reported-to-infidelity/⁠

Jetha, C., & Ryan, C. (2014). Sex at dawn: How we mate, why we stray, and what it means for modern relationships. Harper Perennial. 

This is the premiere episode of Whore-oscopes, a Shaking Sheets Production starring Nia Òla (she/they).

On this episode she discusses loneliness, the building of the digital vigilante and how cyclical this behavior is across history.

Don't forget to like, comment, follow and share if you enjoyed so you don't miss an episode.

If you'd like to keep up with Nia elsewhere, you can find them mostly on TikTok (@ shakingsheets) or IG where she's mostly inactive (@ shakingsheets)

Subscribe to their substack, That Deep for: the Heaux's Know newsletter, essays and more! Paid subscribers also get access to an exclusive podcast episode monthly

https://thatdeep.substack.com

Music by Denys_Brodovskyi

Sources:

https://novaramedia.com/2022/02/14/why-is-gen-z-so-sex-negative/

https://www.economist.com/culture/2024/05/01/is-there-more-or-less-sex-on-screen

https://www.nature.com/articles/s44159-022-00124-1

https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/48773-what-does-britain-think-of-sex-work-and-sex-workers

https://www.povertycenter.columbia.edu/historical-poverty-trends-and-measurement

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21328803/

https://stephenfollows.com/

Just a little rant by Nia Òla about celebrity trials and the insights we receive about oppressive systems because of them.

Follow the socials (@shakingsheets) on YouTube & Instagram (@shakingsheetss) on twitter and head to thedisabledsexplorer.com because my website got a makeover! 

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On this episode, Nia Òla recalls a recent ghosting experience and makes social critiques about dating (and herself). As always follow all the socials @shakingsheets on all platforms (except twitter, y'all already know it's @shakingsheetss there). Subscribe to the Youtube Channel also titled Shaking Sheets for video podcast, guest interviews and more. 

On this episode, Nia Òla drags self help for filth, exposing its flawed origins and how it's used for evil in a contemporary fashion. As always, follow all the socials @shakingsheets (@shakingsheetss on the bird app) and subscribe to the new Youtube Channel, also titled Shaking Sheets for video podcasts including guest and other upcoming content. 

And we're back! 

Hello my lovers and others...

The Shaking Sheets podcast is back from season break with hotter takes and new faces! 

On the premiere episode, Nia Òla (she/they) spoke to Magnolia Garcia (she/her), a proud Latina political commentator, advocate and scholar. They discussed hookup culture & its relationship to feminism, ally ship in marginalized spaces, how capitalism has altered the process of accountability, the reclamation of terms and much more! 

SUPPORT: 

https://peoplesforum.org/

Sundays at Sunset Park (if you're in the NYC area) 

Magnolia's IG: @magnolia_garcia 

As always, like, share and subscribe to the podcast and all of the Shaking Sheets socials: @shakingsheets, except twitter @shakingsheetss 

On this episode, Nia Òla discusses her past transgressions against monogamy and what being a mistress taught her about herself. Be sure to follow all the socials (@shakingsheets) with an additional s on sheets for twitter and head over to shakingsheets.com, the blog that started it all.