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Why Do I Resent Criticism? Lessons from the Maggid of Mezritch and Soloman Maimon on Self-Esteem | Rabbi Bernath's Weekly Sermon


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In this insightful sermon, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath delves into the human aversion to criticism through the lens of Torah teachings and Chassidic wisdom. Using the biblical narrative of Moses rebuking the tribes of Reuben and Gad, Rabbi Bernath explores why criticism is often met with resentment and how it can be transformed into a tool for personal growth. The sermon also draws on the poignant Chassidic story of the Sefas Emes and the philosophical journey of Solomon Maimon to highlight the importance of embracing criticism as a pathway to self-improvement and spiritual elevation.

Takeaways:

  1. Embrace Criticism: Criticism, especially from wise and respected individuals, should be cherished as an opportunity for growth rather than a personal attack.
  2. Historical Lessons: The story of Moses rebuking Reuben and Gad teaches the value of patience and listening to criticism before reacting.
  3. Self-Esteem: Building a solid core of self-worth helps one to handle criticism gracefully and utilize it for personal development.
  4. Humility: Recognizing our own imperfections and areas for growth is essential in accepting and benefiting from criticism.
  5. Relationship Dynamics: In personal relationships, especially marriage, viewing criticism as a constructive dialogue can strengthen bonds and promote mutual understanding.


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