Put Yourself First

Why I’ll Never Coach My Partner (And You Shouldn’t Either)


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This is your sign to stop turning your relationship into a self-development project.

If you’ve ever caught yourself offering “helpful advice” to your partner, sending him podcasts, subtly suggesting therapy, or wondering why he won’t just grow, this episode is going to shift everything.

In this vulnerable and empowering solo, I’m pulling back the curtain on why I don’t coach my partner—even as a full-time coach. And why trying to “fix” him could be blocking the emotional intimacy, safety, polarity, and sex you actually crave.

Inside this powerful chat, we explore:

💭 Why unsolicited coaching kills connection
🔥 How coaching your partner ruins sexual chemistry and polarity
🧠 The sneaky ego trap of “knowing better”
🌿 The art of being his muse, not his manager
💌 How to support your partner without micromanaging his goals
💖 The one belief that transformed my dynamic with Adam forever
✨ How to inspire growth without dragging or nagging

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, dating, or simply planning for the future, this episode is a love letter to the magnetic, empowered version of you who leads in intimacy through embodiment, not performance reviews.

🎧 Loved this episode?
✨ In August, I’m opening a limited number of 1:1 spots for the beta round of my new Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching program (at 50% off the launch price).
If this work is calling you, DM me on Instagram and let’s chat. 💌

https://www.instagram.com/kat_horrocks/

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