If you're a woman, when was the last time you said "no" to a friend, your partner, a colleague? When the boss asked if you could push up a deadline, you said "yes" even though you knew the request was unreasonable. When your boss asked if you liked the pressure, you said "yes" even though it felt like your body was breaking. Women have been socialized into understanding that what is most important is that they be perceived as likable and agreeable. Or like us when guys ask for our number or to buy us a drink our answer is always YES when we want to say NO! Anyone else relate? We dive into why us girls say yes when we wanna say no.

We also have a MAJOR update on Julia’s love life and that hot Coachella boy she met...you need to hear all the deets on this! Hope you enjoy! 

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