Why Won't You Love Yourself?

Why Won't You Love Yourself?

By Lee & NuriSociety & Culture
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Why Won't You Love Yourself? episodes

  • Bleep Bleep Bleep

    Lee and Nuri bleep each other while bleeping, and Nuri bleeped all over him own face... jk. Well, there’s quite a bit of censorship in this episode because the gaysian community is tiny and we are *not* a call-out podcast… or are we? This episode will feature the conclusion to Lee’s saga of coming face-to-face with his “accuser.” Find out also what makes us both ask the question, “is dick cheese dairy?”

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    35 min
  • Rage, Body Dysmorphia & Sexual Tension

    We’re here to shake things up! Instead of doing a long episode where we banter on endlessly on a subject, we decided to just banter endlessly (or— well, for 37 minutes). It’s a little different from the usual episodes but if you enjoy it, please let us know!


    Despite the misleading (and serious-sounding) title, this is a silly episode! We talk about the closure of Rage in LA (and one of us hooking up with a semi-celebrity?!), the end of Lee’s brief stint with actual rage in the past few weeks, and we answer some more questions from our Ask.fm, such as diffusing sexual tension among friends and dealing with body dysmorphia.


    Don’t forget to send Nuri belated birthday nudes, and leave us a review and rating on Apple Podcasts!


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    37 min
  • #Mask4Masc

    This is Nuri’s episode producing debut so please bear with. 

    We talk about whether Lee is an actual prude when it comes to sex, what causes Nuri’s WAP (SURPRISE! It’s not hot Asian guys!), and our first dick pic in our DMs.

    Our main topic is MASCULINITY. We pose some important, hard-hitting questions about Asian masculinity, such as:

    “What does masculinity mean to you?” “Is it important to be straight passing?” “Where did you learn masculinity?”

    And we definitely... made an effort.... to answer them.... without contradicting ourselves........ yeah.

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    58 min
  • Reputation

    ARE YOU READY FOR IT? 

    In this episode, we recap our trip to Sooke, Lee’s traumatic experiences with the game Truth or Dare with gaysians, and Nuri’s experience which left a stain on this memory. 

    This deep dive is all about reputation in the gay(sian) community. We know most of you have been in the situation where you match with someone on Tinder, find their Instagram, and immediately message your friends who are mutuals with them and ask what they know about the person. 

    Thank you again for listening and please support us by rating and reviewing us on iTunes and checking out our video episode on YouTube!

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    1 hr 1 min
  • Grindr: Filter by Tribe

    In this week's episode: We get our first special guest appearance! Welcome Dennis Nguyen to their podcast debut! Who is he? Listen and find out.  

    Nuri gets a special message on Reddit requesting him to utilize his skills to make a quick buck— what is it?!  

    Lee also has an update on his search for a new place. 2020 might finally be his year!(?) 

    H-HOW YOU LIKE THAT? We didn’t.  

    And Lee also doesn’t like that Hermes belt that’s haunting him in the promo pic. 

    We discuss and disseminate some Gaysian groups in this week’s main topic (@14:06) but we can’t talk about being gay and Asian without mentioning a certain Hawaiian #Legend and #Icon that everyone knows, especially if you’re from Tumblr circa the 2010s. 

    Skip to 43:18 to hear us answer this week's listener question! 

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    59 min
  • Mean Gaysians

    In this episode, we discuss the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement, Lee addresses Nuri’s haters and talks about sleeping with friends, and Nuri comes to the realization that having a group of gaysian friends stopped him from sucking white dick (kinda)! 

    For more resources and information on how to support the BLM movement, visit https://blacklivesmatter.com/ (blacklivesmatter.com/) If you’re financially unable to contribute any donations, consider doing some “ad-tivism” by looking for Zoe Amira’s video on YouTube!

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    Or email your questions and comments to [email protected]

    57 min
  • Thirst Traps

    In this premiere episode, join Lee and Nuri as they go on an expansive conversation that covers sincerity in Tinder bios, gaysians at EDC, and how posting thirst traps helped Nuri find a community. 

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    50 min

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Two gaysians take a deep dive into their bad life decisions and offer an unapologetic view into everything queer and Asian. Hosted by non-celebrities Lee and Nuri. Follow us on Instagram…