You have a choice to respond vs react to holiday drama from family and friends.  What if you choose to let them be them and act however they want and love them through it.  That is an option available to you. 

Grief leaves us unsure of ourselves so much of the time.   We look to others and the world for what is right?  Why?  Is there a right or wrong in what we should do for the Holidays?   There isn't, it only matters what you want.   WE get so confused about our feelings and think we are sad because we see decorations and it makes us miss them.   Truth is - the decorations had nothing to do with it.  It was your thoughts about the decorations.   

Join me to today to discuss how we make the holidays harder than they need to be with drama around decorating.