Want to try some kinky stuff with your partner, but have no idea where to begin? Panelists offer tips for those curious about experimenting with power play, sensation play, and beyond.

Plus! Don't miss our Sunday, Oct. 12, 2025, 6pm, SEVENTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW in Chicago. Get tix and more info here!

In this episode:

• Cassie Porter - Somatic sex educator & sexological bodyworker
• Jason Best - Kink-aware therapist & founder of Best Therapies
• Peter Navarro - Sex-positive and somatic-oriented therapist

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From our June 2025 live Chicago show, Archy Jamjun, R.C. Riley, Amy Sumpter and Joe Mellen bring the laughs. Plus audiences answer the q, "What's your go-to fantasy?"

Joe Mellen, storyteller 

Amy Sumpter, comic and rapper 

R.C. Riley, writer and performer 

Archy Jamjun, storyteller and comic 

Karen Yates, certified somatic sex educator and energy worker

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Somatic Experiencing helps heal trauma and stress by addressing the body’s responses and its nervous system. In this in-depth episode, somatic therapist Meggie Twible discusses this gentle and powerful method and how it can work with sexual trauma and also its effects in polycules. 

In this episode:

• Meggie Twible, somatic therapist
• Homecoming Therapies on Instagram
• Twible’s online events
• Somatic Experiencing official website
• TRE–somatic method
• The Safe and Sound Audio Protocol
• Karen Yates, somatic sex educator

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What happens when kink meets therapy? In this lively conversation, Dr Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™, explains how trauma can be healed when a kink professional, therapist, and client work together.

In this episode:

• Therapist Dr. Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™ and founder of KPSA
• Kink Professionals Standards Alliance (KPSA) Summit, October 25-26
• Books by Dr. Rahman on Amazon
• Karen Yates – sex educator and healer
• Wild & Sublime

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What exactly does a surrogate partner do? For our Healing from Sexual Trauma series, we’re rebroadcasting a powerful 2022 episode where two professional surrogates talk about the intimate work of redressing trauma, dismantling unhealthy assumptions about sex, and helping clients move toward the relationships they want.

In this episode:

• River Roaring - Surrogate partner, private coach & workshop facilitator
• Brian Gibney - Surrogate partner and intimacy coach 

More resources:

• Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group 
• Surrogate Partner Collective
• International Professional Surrogates Association

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Remi Newman, editor of Hands On, a book collection of personal essays by sexuality workers, and Mehdi, a somatic sex and trauma therapist, talk with Karen about the complexities of sex work and the potential for deep healing through hands-on modalities.

In this episode:

Hands On: Stories of Sexuality Work, Intimacy and Healing  

Remi Newman - editor, Hands On; surrogate partner; and sexuality educator

Mehdi - somatic sex and trauma therapist

Karen Yates - dual-certified somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker, and energy worker

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Men, Trauma, and Sex with JoJo Bear 

Sexual Trauma, Somatic Healing 

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In the first episode of our Healing from Sexual Trauma season, sexological bodyworker and healer Rahi Chun describes how genital de-armoring can help people move through held and often painful trauma patterns lodged in the pelvis. This fascinating conversation is a must-listen.

Don't miss our Wed. June 25, 7pm, show in Chicago! Info and tix

In this episode:

Rahi Chun - dual-certified somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker

Karen Yates - dual-certified somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker and energy worker

Rahi’s course on genital de-armoring 

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Men, Trauma, and Sex with JoJo Bear 

Sexual Trauma, Somatic Healing 

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How do you work through the bad feelings that can damage good relationships? Polyamorous therapist and author Kate Loree chats with Karen about her comprehensive book “Open Deeply,” about consensual nonmonogamy and deep strategies to regulate you during conflicts.

In this episode:

• Kate Loree - Sex-positive psychotherapist
• Open Deeply and other sex-positive book recs
• Open Deeply podcast - hosted by Kate Loree and Sunny Megatron

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Want to rev up your relationship and bust out of limiting patterns? Host Karen Yates is an intimacy coach and somatic sex educator who works with couples online and in person in Chicago to help improve their intimate communication and expand pleasure in a process that can be embodied, meaningful, and fun. Go to karen-yates.com and set up a free Zoom consultation and to download her free guide: Say It Better in Bed! 3 Proven Ways to Improve Intimate Communication.

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In this final episode of our Polyamory in Depth season, Karen chats with David Carlson, campaign coordinator for OPEN, about how to begin legislating at the local level for nondiscrimination ordinances protecting polyamorous folks and those in diverse family structures.

In this episode:

• OPEN - The Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
• OPEN’s campaign coordinator David Carson 
• Host, sex educator, and energy worker Karen Yates 
• OPEN’s Legislative Toolkit

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Relationship Anarchy rejects rules and expectations in how we relate to each other. It’s mentioned more and more in the media, but what is it exactly? In this lively conversation, therapist Nicole Thompson explains that while RA can turn our relationships on their heads, it can also bring freedom. 

In this episode:

• Therapist and podcaster Nicole Thompson 
• Host, sex educator, and energy worker Karen Yates 
• Relationship Anarchy Manifesto
• Relationship Smorgasbord 

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