Rachel goes over some self care reminders as we roll into spring and pass the year mark of the start of lockdown. She then chats with Lily from Love With Intelligence about dating rules, communication, identifying and disarming narcissists, online dating, and how to date authentically.

This week, Rachel answers a listener question about how to define the relationship. Then she jumps into a conversation with her guest, Scarlett, about Scarlett’s journey in owning her sexuality.

Rachel talks pandemic, podcast, and gives an Alain de Botton recommendation before getting into a conversation with Chloe from the podcast “Stripper Stories”. They talk about the logistics of working in a strip club, lingerie, client stories, and the challenges and stigmas that people in the sex industry are currently facing.

Rachel is having a hard time keeping quiet about how excited she is about all of the upcoming guests on the docket! She talks a bit about why women fake orgasms before getting into a conversation about infidelity with her friend Manette. They chat about Manette’s experiences, why people cheat, and how you can learn from it.

This week, Rachel goes over the upcoming changes for the podcast and shares a product and a self love tip. Then, she has a chat with Keyla of Keyla TeAnn Photography, who works as a boudoir photographer.

Rachel and Anna go over some upcoming changes for the podcast before getting into their discussion for the week. The talk was originally supposed to be about cohabitation with a partner, but many topics surrounding long term relationships and relationship “timelines” are covered.

Anna and Rachel start a discussion about sexual incompatibility this week. In this episode they discuss incompatibility when it comes to sex drives, kinks, and "just okay" sex. How do you communicate with your partner about these things that can incite so much shame? At what point are these things make or break? They also lightly touch on “sexual variation” but hope to have a guest on in the future who can speak to this more at length.

Rachel and Anna catch up and then jump into their sexy holiday discussion to go over sexy Hanukkah and Christmas traditions, why Santa is a safe sexy figure, and why, apparently, many women have a Grinch kink? They then discuss how to let go of 2020 and welcome 2021 in a way that will let you be kind to yourself.

Anna is out this week, so in this short mini episode Rachel provides some information, resources, and tools that she has stumbled upon over the last few weeks. Happy Holidays, everyone! Take care of yourselves.

Anna and Rachel read some listener mail, and follow up on last week’s topic by going over some helpful grounding techniques. Then, they get into discussion the stigmas surrounding STIs and explore how common STIs really are, where the taboos come from, and how to be safe and communicate.