With Love & Butter

With Love & Butter

Download on the App Store

With Love & Butter episodes

  • I’m Getting Married Y'all!!!! Engagement and other musings

    Hi my lovies, and welcome back to a special episode of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and all the food and drinks that get us through it.

    If you’re listening to this, you’ve already seen the title of this video so I’ll get right to it!
    I’m engaged. Screams internally. B and I have been engaged for almost 3 months now and I’ve been just over the moon about it!
    So in this episode, I want to take you all to the moment in time of the proposal, how we prepared to enter this season, all of the deets about our custom ring from Wove, and some of the things we’re looking forward to in this next season of our journey to marriage. And Femi, who you’ve come to know and love as B, will be joining us at the end of today’s episode.
    To learn more about our gorgeous custom ring, check out Wove, our exclusive custom jeweler. https://wovemade.com/shop/engagement-rings

    1 hr 53 min
  • “I’ve gone as far as I can alone”. Musings on loving well, living together and fleeting girlhood.

    Welcome BACK to Season 2 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and the food & drinks that get us through it.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast


    Today's Cocktail: 16 Carriages - an Apple Cider Mezcal Margarita 

    Today's Recipe: Soy Tomato Braised Pot Roast with Melting Onions & Brown Sugared Carrots

    Today's Wine Pairing: Chenin Blanc

    Today's Song Pairing: Imperfections by Baddaman Cerk 

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    36 min
  • SURPRISE EPISODE - Just Passing Through: Moving to Atlanta with My Love

    Welcome to a SURPRISE EPISODE of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my final days in my Charlotte “bachelorette pad”, preparing for a move to Atlanta with my partner B, and how it feels to be starting not so from scratch this time around. 

    You can support my NEW cookbook Early Enough at courtneefutch.gumroad.com

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    1 hr 13 min
  • I’m Not Single Now? : Letting Love & Lessons Find Me

    Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. 

    This is Episode 13, our last of the season, before I take a brief hiatus and resume the podcast in the summer. And today we were GOING to be talking about my new outlook on dating as I went  into my third year of singleness. What I wanted. How I planned to get it. And how it was going, three months in. 

    BUT baby! Life has been lifing is the most funny way possible, and baby. I am in a relationship now. So instead, we’ll talk about how an unexpected someone has made me live my entire life more romantically and creatively. A letter I wrote to myself at the top of January. And how returning home to Atlanta changed my life. It’s a lot to get into. 


    Subscribe to the With Love & Butter newsletter at courtneefutch.substack.com

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.substack.com⁠

    Today's Cocktail: Mezcal Bourbon Ginger Sour 

    Today's Recipe: Crab & Roasted Corn Carbonara with Brown Butter Lime Breadcrumbs 

    Today's Wine Pairing: Citrusy Sicilian White Wine like Etna Bianco

    Today's Song Pairing: Blü Moon by THEY. 

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. 

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support


    2 hr 8 min
  • Caught up in the Wrapture: 2022 Dating Wrapped + Q&A

    Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater.

    Happy New Year! Today we’re talking about my 2021 AND 2022 Dating Recap + answering 12 questions you all had about my 2022 dating experiences!

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Bitter Apricot Mezcal Sour

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    1 hr 30 min
  • It’s just politics, not personal: Navigating Rejection & Anxious Attachment

    Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater.

    Today we’re talking about miscommunication, rejection and peeling back the layers of my anxious attachment style.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Pomegranate Rose Paper Plane

    Today's Recipe: Lemon & Brown Butter Hummus Chicken Shawarma Bowl

    Today's Wine Pairing: Sparkling Brut Rose

    Today's Song Pairing: Lemon Pepper Wet by Tempest

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    56 min
  • Some Love Lost: Navigating the Ugliness of Grief Post Breakup

    Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater.

    Today we’re talking grief, romantic, platonic, and the self.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Mango Sorbet ‘Naked and Famous’

    Today's Recipe: Smoky BBQ & Orange Shrimp and Grits over Buttermilk Gouda Grits

    Today's Wine Pairing: Pinot Gris

    Today's Song Pairing: A.N.O by ELHAE

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    1 hr 5 min
  • Axethrowing & Love Bombing: How do I know you love me if it’s not immediate?!?!?

    Welcome to Episode 9 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking love bombing and why I’m so susceptible to it, my own time as a love bomber, dating men several years older than me, and then ultimately the choice to remain strangers.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Passionfruit Campari Tiki Cocktail

    Today's Recipe: Pan Seared Cod with Crispy Spiced Potatoes in a Red Coconut Curry Sauce

    Today's Wine Pairing: Gewurztraminer

    Today's Song Pairing: Right on Time (ft. Lonr) by B.K. Habermehl

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    ---
    Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/message
    Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/support
    54 min
  • 28 Questions: Reflections on Love & Life for Every Year

    Welcome to Episode 8 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re switching things up. If you’re following me on TIkTok, we’ve likely interacted a lot and you’ve seen that I get asked hundreds of questions about dating, entrepreneurship adventures, my corporate career, food, friendships etc. And I wanted to address some of the most frequently asked and share with y’all the lessons that I’ve learned in my 28 years on the planet.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Earl Grey Lavender Bee’s Knees

    Today's Recipe: Coffee & Brown Sugar BBQ Short Ribs over Buttermilk Cheddar Grits

    Today's Wine Pairing: Pinot Noir

    Today's Song Pairing: ISLY by Kenyon Dixon

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    1 hr 38 min
  • Completely Hinged: Dating Apps & Spinning the Block for Italy via Detroit

    Welcome to Episode 7 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. 

    Today we’re FINALLY diving into the year of Courting Courtnee. Starting with my very first days as a newly single woman navigating Hinge, a kiss so bad it bruised my lip for two days, a different man who we’ll call Detroit and spinning the block with him after 2 years and dating people who actually LIKE you.

    All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast

    Today's Cocktail: Watermelon Negroni with Salt & Black Pepper

    Today's Recipe: Chicken Saltimbocca with Juicy Peaches, Basil and Mozzarella

    Today's Wine Pairing: Moscato d’Asti

    Today's Song Pairing: Kiss U Right Now by Duckwrth

    The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7

    Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

    Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

    32 min

About With Love & Butter

From the publisher's feed

With Love and Butter is a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it, hosted by Courtnee Futch.