Dr. Ramani and Silvia Saige discuss the four month holiday period, from Thanksgiving until Valentine’s Day.

Dr. Ramani weighs in on people trying to live up to expectations, and how that gets magnified during the holidays, which in turn creates tension for partners.

To remedy all of this sadness they decide to come up with the 12 Days of Sex for the Holidays, in hopes of bringing back the joy, love, fun, and lots of sex as the ultimate gift for you and your partner.

Dr. Ramani and Silvia Saige discuss Louis CK and his exhibitionist masturbation issue. They dig deeper into using power for sex of any type and if there's a way to solve this problem. Dr. Ramani brings up the sexual spectrum in America, ranging from Calvanistic to outrageously deviant, and why we're at extremes. Silvia laments the fact that we don't teach our kids about sex in a healthy way.

Dr. Ramani and Silvia Saige continue discussing the Harvey Weinstein controversy with the #MeToo hashtag. They explore why it's so hard for women to come forward when they've been harassed or assaulted and how there's a lot of shame in being a whistleblower. Also, how there's always the potential for quiet blowback even though you've done the right thing. 

Plus, Woody Allen's idiot comments, Mayim Bailik pissing people off online, and how harassment even exists in porn.

Dr. Ramani is joined once again by comedian and pornstar Siliva Saige. They discuss the topic on everyone's minds right now, the Harvey Weinstein scandal. From Harvey, to Bill Cosby, to Anthony Weiner, they go hard on narcissistic predators and the people that enable them. Plus, they both take issue with so called "sex addiction" and people that use it as an excuse for harassment and cheating.

Get Dr. Ramani's book Should I Stay Or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship With A Narcissist now!

Dr. Ramani welcomes back guest host, pornstar & comedian Silvia Saige.

They talk about the Anthony Weiner conviction which leads them down the road of how tech interacts with sex. From filtering what you do sexually online to how passionate love is unsustainable. Plus, Silvia opens up about having ongoing "relationships" with fans that go to far.

Plus, the question everyone wants answered--is it better to engage online or pick up a hooker on the corner?

Dr. Ramani Durvasula and guest host Sasha Knox talk to Mare Simone, a sex surrogate and tantric sex educator. 

Mare provides sex coaching for individuals and couples. She is offering a comp consultation to our listeners. Visit MareSimone.com for more info. 

The group discusses sex issues including shame and guilt. Mutual masturbation vs. engaged sex. How does sex surrogacy compare to prostitution? Is tantra better than just banging it out? And much much more.

Dr. Ramani welcomes porn actress and comedian Silvia Saige who went from a corporate job, to standup comedy, then added porn to her resume. She went through a tumultuous time in her life then turned to comedy to start on a new path. After a legal situation left her needing money, she started doing porn and hasn't looked back since.

Silvia and Ramani talk about porn's objectification of women, dating when you're in the adult film business, making it in standup comedy, and much more.

Dr. Ramani is joined by psychic Chris Medina who teaches her "Gay 101". In a candid and humorous way he explains, from his perspective, tops and bottoms, sex with straight men, sex with women, ass play, and why he will never go down on a woman---again!

If you ever wanted to know the intimate details of gay sex then this is your episode.

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