If magically, 2 extra hours appeared in your day, what would you do in that time? If you had to dedicate that time solely to you?
I posed this question multiple times this week, with little to no response.
A few years ago I moved from Wollongong back to Central West NSW. I rented a duplex, had a good job, a gym membership and routinely saw my friends and family.
My belief at the time, was that the life I was living was "good", a life a lot of people strived for. I went to university straight out of school, got good grades, a good job and I was climbing that corporate ladder. I went to the gym, ate relatively well, socialised with my friends and routinely caught up with my family. Sounds great, doesn't it?
The problem with this story, with this life I was living, is it didn't align with my values (if you're unsure what your values are, go to https://www.kateastill.com/values to download my FREE guide).
Upon reflection, this was a life society considered "good". For me, it felt dull, routine and mundane. If I valued security or consistency, I might have felt different. However, I value adventure and spontaneity. To thrive, I need flexibility in my schedule to flow with what inspires me and lights me up.
Values matter because you’re likely to feel better if you’re living according to your values and to feel worse if you don’t. This applies both to day-to-day decisions and to larger life choices. Everybody is different, and what makes one person happy may leave another person feeling anxious or disconnected. Defining your personal values and then living by them can help you to feel more fulfilled and to make choices that make you happy, even if they don’t make sense to other people.
So if you had little to no response to my first question:
- Start by defining your values.
- Notice what content inspires you.
- Notice what content you find dull.
- Become aware of the choices you are faced with each day and if you're choosing a life that aligns or conflicts with your values.
This can be a daunting exercise. I'm here if you need guidance (contact details below).
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