Lesson 1: As we begin, make the decision to:
Part I: Focus on your weaknesses more than ________ ________________ (Part II) and turn your frustrations _______ ____________ (Eph 5:22, 25).
Part III: Trust the Holy Spirit ____ ________ (Part IV) ________ ______ (Eph 5:18; 2 Cor 9:8; Phil 2:13; Heb 13:20-21Rom 13:13-14; Col 3:12-14, 1:29).
Lesson 2: (Parts 1 through 3 are from last week) Agapaō is:
Part I: Unconditional (Hos 3).
Part II: Sacrificial (Luke 10:30-37).
Part III: God’s love for us (John 3:16, 15:13; Rom 5:8).
Part IV: Husbands’ ________ ______ their wives (Eph 5:25).
Lesson 3: Wives can make loving ________ ____________ (Pro 19:13b, 21:9/25:24, 21:19, 27:15-16, Pro 31:11-12).
Lesson 4: Husbands love their wives by ______________ ________ with the Word (Eph 5:26; John 15:3, 17:17).
Lesson 5: Husbands set the _______________ for ________________ in the home (Eph 5:26).
HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENTS FOR THE WEEK AND OPTIONAL DISCUSSION QUESTIONS…
Homework Assignment # 1: Ephesians 5:22-27
Husband asks wife: Do you feel like I love you like Christ loved the church? How could I do a better job in this area?
Wife asks husband: In what ways do you feel like I am submissive? In what ways could I be more submissive?
Homework Assignment #2: Ephesians 5:28-33
Husband asks wife: Based on verses 28 & 29 do you feel like I take care of you as well as I take care of myself? Based on verse 31 do you feel like you’re the supreme relationship in my life, above my parents or anything else?
Based on verse 33 wife asks husband: Do you feel like I respect you? How could I show you more respect?
Homework Assignment #3: Ephesians 6:1-4
Parents ask children: In what ways do you see yourselves obeying us? In what ways could you be more obedient?
Discuss as a family: Is there a difference between honoring and obeying?
Fathers ask children: In what ways am I exasperating you (might need to explain this word) or provoking you to anger?
Possible suggestions:
There is no correct length of time.
Choose the same time each week to establish a routine; after dinner can work very well since everyone is seated at the table.
Make sure the television and/or cell phones are off and do not answer the house phone.
The father/husband should open in prayer.
Involve children by having them read verses.
Close by asking if there are any prayer requests. Then have the mother open in prayer, invite the children to pray if they feel led (don’t want prayer to become something children have a negative attitude toward, which can happen if they’re forced to pray), and father closes in prayer.