Word of The Day: Purpose (n) - The REASON for which something is done, created, or exists.

Dating can be.. a lot, right? Fun, frustrating, and everything in between. In this episode, Reck is joined by @Eva_TheArtist (mother of one) and @PhlyCoach (single since 2012) to discuss their their unique experiences and expectations while on the dating scene.  Subtopics include convos that are OFF-LIMITS or REQUIRED for the first-date (6:57), defining what differentiates a "date" from an "outing" (12:00).  Dating as a parent and dating people who are parents (19:41).  When Reck discloses that he is polyamorous in the dating process (33:09).  Implications of astrology on dating experiences (40:15).  Why are people are sooner willing to cheat than to explore polyamory (47:09).

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Word of the Day: Timorous (adj) - showing or suffering from nervousness, fear, or a lack of confidence

(12:18) The symbol of offering the olive branch finds its origin in ancient Egypt, where it was utilized as a symbol of peace and grace.  Rarely, we extend ourselves enough grace in reflection of our rugged lives. To begin episode 8, Reck debuts an extremely personal poem from his private collection in order to extend himself exactly that.  Fraternity brother and friend @Amore.Muse joins Open Space for an impromptu dialogue on grace (17:07), a critique of languages (25:00), cooking as an act of love (32:43) and a dialogue on a few missing love languages from the familiar five. The #SpokenWordSpotlight welcomes spoken word from @CLA_Pro.TV (45:57) . Be sure to check out his A.R.T. Live Life Podcast. 

Happy Birthday Brooke, Justin, Courtney, Tati, and Happy Zetaversary Eva Darling! 

Reckommendations 

The Hairventures of Coily and Curly: Children's Book by Clarissa Brookins (Amazon) 

A.R.T. Live Life Podcast (Apple, Spotify) 

Spoken Word Spotlight: @CLA_Pro.TV (Instagram)

Black Owned Audio Books: @AbantuAudio (Instagram)

Due to COVID - 19, Free Courses are being offered by Rosetta Stone, Udemy, Harvard, Coursera, Penn State, and Nikon

Christine weighs in on the topic of discussion that was addressed in Episode 7 (whoopings).  Additionally, G-Ma provides a news update to keep us current on information during this time of quarantine. 

Pals of the pod... call your grandparents. Call your aunts and uncles. Check on the people that are most vulnerable. Real talk... 

Watch as well as pray. 

Word of The Day: Sisyphean (adj) - of or denoting a task that can never be completed.

Whoopings. If melanated, chances are that you got at least one as a shorty. In the Black community, whoopings are viewed by many as critical to the process of disciplining children. Is it really essential? Are whoopings a "Black thing"? Should corporal punishment continued to be implored? Reck and his "Person" discuss what the research says about spankings amongst other ethnic groups (10:43), then reflect on their personal experiences with corporal punishment (22:01). Is there a difference between a whooping and child abuse (28:32)?  The topic is well-explored in Open Space alongside @p_bradleyyy.  The Spoken Word Spotlight welcomes two dynamic artists in the name of Women's History Month (55:40). 

Don't forget, #ConvoWithChristine is available now in Episode 7.5

Happy Women's History Month!

Reckommendations

Corporal Punishment by Parents and Associated Child Behaviors and Experiences:

NIU Parent Assistance: chhs.niu.edu/child-center/child-care-grant

Map of Legal CP in Schools https://www.mic.com/articles/83349/19-states-still-allow-spanking-in-schools-and-the-statistics-are-shocking

Beating Black Kids by Asadah Kirkland (Book)

Spoken Word Spotlight: @onesun3flowers & @taisha3mil (Instagram)

Courtney Brookins (Author/Podcaster/Entrepreneur)

In this truncated episode, celebration of Women's History Month continues with a SpokenWord Spotlight performance by published poet Tiffany Parks (4:48). Later, Reck and his G-Ma have a dialogue that illustrates the impact of colorism has had on the perception of beauty within the Black community for generations (8:35).  

If you are interested in recording a response to this episode (or any other), please visit anchor.fm/wowthatsdeep/message to submit your comments/questions!

Happy Women's History Month!

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WASH YA GOT DAMN HANDS (Your Bathroom)

The Evolution to Womanhood: Stories Told with Poetic License by Tiffany Parks (Amazon)

Word of The Day: Divaricate (v) - To spread apart; branch away from; diverge

First thing's first.. God is a WOMAN. Happy Women's History Month! In this return episode, the audience is greeted with a preview of the debut single "Bogu Ma Dem" from singer-songwriter @_BintaK (4:42). WOTD is presented by ReFashion Geek seamstress @See_My_Beauty (9:12). In Open Space, Reck asks the audience to reflect on the question of, "Whose standard are you comparing yourself to?" In the age of social media, scrolling down a timeline can be the quickest way to decrease your self-esteem if you aren't sure of what YOUR standard is. Further, who dictates what beauty is? What success is? What professional is? Reck investigates these questions and provides an insider's perspective on to play "The Game" of the job search, all while fully acknowledging that the game is indeed rigged (10:12).  Fellow Virgo, Sigma Man, and soon to be world renown artist @SherrodTheArtist has a candid conversation with the host about a desire to have lighter skin in childhood (32:32).  Colorism is fucked up ain't it? This special edition, WOMEN'S ONLY Spoken Word Spotlight segment doubles up with features from Chicago natives @QueenLexLuxe and @Simpleigh.Love representing for the sistas! 

Happy Women's History Month!

Reckommendations

Music by Binta - www.bintakanediallo.com & Binta Music (SoundCloud)

Spoken Word Spotlight: @QueenLexLuxe & @Simpleigh.Love (Instagram)

Dreezy & The Therapist Interview (Youtube)

Blue Vein Society (Google It)

Word of The Day: Predilection (n): a preference or special liking for something; a bias in favor of something.

Rounding up the two-part discussion on the impact of mental health on interpersonal relationships, Reck is joined by a romantic partner (Hint: Ri-visit Episode 2) 1:50.  @AscencionMusic previews yet ANOTHER banger for the listening audience to vibe to 6:25, DM @wowthatsdeeppodcast on Instagram for purchase inquiries. In light of Valentine's Day, Reck and his guest discuss the difficulty of holiday celebration within a polyamorous love style and give first-hand perspectives on how mental health has impacted their relationship with one another 8:42. Licensed therapist and good homie, Kristen Rogers provides a professional's perspective on the subject matter and suggests a call to action to preserve your peace 24:18.  World-traveled "Oddly Awkward" artist @ChristianoCanCan delivers a poem for today's #SpokenWordSpotlight that will be sure to lead you to seek after more of his creative works.  Check out this week's resources and suggestions below.

Happy Black History Month!

Reckommendations

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255

Therapy for Black Girls: www.therapyforblackgirls.com

Music Production/Beats: @AscencionMusic (Instagram)

Hair - Loctician (Chicago): Eva Darling - Facebook

#SpokenWordSpotlight Feature: @ChristianoCanCan (Instagram)

Black Owned Restaurants (Houston): @TurkeyLegHut, @KatfishAndGrits

Events & Parties (Chicago): Sigma Chris Events, www.SigmaChris.com

Word of The Day: Internecine (adj): destructive to both sides in a conflict

While #MentalHealth has indeed been THEE buzzword of the past two years, seldom do our investigative conversations examine the ways in which (HELLA academic, right?!) the status of our mental health impacts those whom we hold relationships with.  In this first half of a two-part discussion, Reck chops it up with a few of the homies in a virtual panel discussion (12:03) to explore exactly that.  Later, Reck answers his own interview questions during Open Space (31:30).  Before the wrap up, a rising star from out west @YouLoveBill stops by to illuminate the room for this week's #SpokenWordSpotlight! (39:08). In closing, Reck drops a few free gems to the #PalsOfThePod that will improve mental fitness.. Keep the change ;-)

Happy Black History Month!

Reckommendations

Find a Therapist (Psychology Today)

Illustrator/Cartoonist/Painter/Designer: @GodSonRod (Instagram)

Music Production/Beats: @AscencionMusic (Instagram)

Hip-Hop Artist: @Really2Goode (Instagram)

#SpokenWordSpotlight Feature: @YouLoveBill (Instagram)

Braiding/Protective Styles: @Conay_Control (Instagram)

No Strings Podcast: @NoStringsPodcast (Instagram)

M.A.D.E. Accessories: www.MakingADreamExist.com

Kiara's Mental Health Resource Blog : www.byrdseeds.life

Word of The Day: Pretermit (v): omit to do or mention

Reck opens episode 3 with thoughts and words of tribute to the iconic #BlackMamba, Kobe Bryant.  Later, Reck is joined in Open Space (11:57) by one of his closest friends to examine the similarities and differences between platonic relationships and romantic relationships.  At its close, Reck expounds on his current perception of the implications of marriage (33:27). This week, listeners are greeted with the VERY FIRST Spoken Word Spotlight segment (43:53) featuring Devin Chavers (IG: @PhlyCoach). The episode concludes with the return of a bleep heavy #ConvoWithChristine (49:34)... segment not suitable for children -_- 

Reckommendations 

Polyamory: Why a Married Couple Opened Their Marriage  (YouTube)

Best of Def Jam Poetry Playlist  (YouTube)

Music Production/Beats: @AscencionMusic (Instagram)

*Kobe Bryant: Mindset of a Winner (YouTube)

Word of The Day: Misanthropy (n): the general hatred, dislike, distrust or contempt of the human species or human nature

In this NEW AND IMPROVED episode, your host of the @WowThatsDeepPodcast provides a particularly candid overview of his journey to polyamory and several key influential moments (10:12). Sub-commentary addresses the (mis)understanding of polyamory within the Black community, effects of unaddressed trauma on one's decision-making, and the difference between non-monogamy and infidelity. Listeners will be delightfully greeted by the debut of the much anticipated Convo with Christine segment (36:02).  

Reckommendations

Music Production/Beats: @AscencionMusic (Instagram) 

Aye Yo Mani! Podcast: @ayeyomani_thepodcast (Instagram) 

Local Therapist Finder : www.PsychologyToday.com