I Don't Know How You Do It

Writing Your Own Rules: Reinvention, Rebellion, and Reclaiming Your Voice with Lynne Golodner


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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Lynne Golodner, author of eleven books across multiple genres, who found her voice in midlife.

When Lynn chose Orthodox Judaism in her twenties, she was drawn to its structure and meaning—but years later, a moment of clarity during a camping trip sparked her realization that this path no longer aligned with her authentic self. What began as a spiritual journey evolved into a series of bold reinventions that would ultimately lead her to greater creative freedom and financial success.

Lynne shares the raw, unfiltered reality of navigating divorce during the 2008 recession as a freelance writer with three children—sitting on her stairs, methodically working through worst-case scenarios, and building a strategic plan to support her family. She explains how she transitioned from traditional publishing to self-publishing to protect her "very Jewish author brand," a decision that has allowed her to produce a book a year while staying true to her identity.

With refreshing candor, Lynne breaks down her practical approach to prolific writing. She offers actionable insights on claiming your identity as a writer before you feel "ready," reframing rebellious traits as leadership qualities, and building a sustainable creative practice despite overwhelming circumstances.

This conversation isn't just for authors or those in creative fields. Lynn's insights apply to anyone facing a transition that demands courage, strategic thinking, and the determination to write your own rules despite what conventional wisdom might suggest.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

  • How to face your fears systematically by naming them and working through worst-case scenarios
  • Why building dreams incrementally through consistent small steps leads to lasting change
  • The power of reframing "negative" traits like rebellion as strengths in your professional life
  • How to claim your identity as a writer, artist, or creator before you feel fully "ready"
  • The strategic importance of building a body of work over time
  • Why you should never dilute what makes you unique, even when it might limit your audience
  • How to channel idealism productively, even when it leads you down unexpected paths
  • Practical ways to transform your life one small step at a time when facing major transitions

Learn more about Lynne:

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