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Roscoe Dash was once everywhere—radio hits, viral hooks, and club anthems. But what happens after the fame fades?
On this episode of xoMAN, Roscoe Dash opens up to Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker about the personal journey that followed his meteoric rise in music. From navigating fatherhood, ego death, and bad relationships to literally landing in jail during one of his lowest points, Roscoe shares how spirituality, perspective, and hard lessons helped him rebuild his life—and purpose.
They explore what it means to redefine manhood, the difference between faith and fear, why being "too helpful" cost him his freedom, and how raising daughters is reshaping his approach to love and legacy. This is Roscoe like you've never heard him—transparent, wise, and funny as hell.
🔍 Topics Covered:Red Flag/Green Flag dating scenarios & relationship perspectives
How bad relationships and overextending led him off track—and to jail
The importance of ego death, spiritual growth & mentorship
Why fatherhood changed everything (and how his daughters inspire him)
Lessons on self-worth, emotional intelligence & redefining masculinity
Stories from high school to the come-up (recording "Turnt Up" at home)
Facing the pressure of being the provider, and how that can go wrong
Why he believes "faith and fear can't coexist"
Unpacking industry expectations vs. living in purpose
What it really means to be free—and how he's raising his kids to feel that way
✨ Stay Up to Date with All Things XONecole: 📸 Instagram: @xonecole ▶️ YouTube: @xonecoletv 🌐 Website: www.xonecole.com
🎤 Follow Roscoe Dash: 📸 Instagram: @urdjuice
🎙️ Follow Host Kiara Walker:
📸 Instagram: @kikisaidso
📸TikTok: @kikisaidso
▶️ YouTube: @kikisaidso
🎧 Available on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon Music | iHeart | YouTube (video episodes drop Wednesdays)
This week on the xoMAN Podcast, host Kiara "Kiki Said So" Walker sits down with singer, songwriter, husband and father Adrian Marcel, to talk about the personal evolution behind the music. Known for his smooth vocals and Bay Area flavor, Adrian gets candid about love, fatherhood, and the identity shifts that come with both.
He opens up about meeting his wife at a time when she wasn't fully over her ex — and why he took that as a challenge, not a red flag. From losing his record deal to finding clarity in fatherhood and faith, Adrian shares how life checked his ego and made space for the man he's become.
They get into:
The moment he realized he was performing pain for a check
Why he kept his relationship private early on
How becoming a father of four transformed his priorities
The role faith and therapy played in his healing
Red flags, emotional accountability, and letting go of control in love
It's emotional, insightful, and full of gems about navigating purpose, partnership, and masculinity as a Black man in the public eye.
📱 Stay connected: Follow Adrian Marcel on Instagram: @adrianmarcel Follow the host: @kikisaidso Follow xoNecole: @xonecole
💻 Watch video episodes on YouTube: @xonecoletv More at: www.xonecole.com
"You're a slave to another man's belief if you can't cry."
Actor Skyh Black joins the xoMAN Podcast to explore how Hollywood, masculinity, and his own upbringing shaped — and almost broke — his identity. In this raw and inspiring conversation, he opens up about becoming a professional ballet dancer, navigating fame while staying true to his roots, and unlearning toxic definitions of manhood.
Host Kiara Walker (@kikisaidso) dives deep with Skyh on:
Being raised by strong Black women and protecting his emotional core
His early career as a dancer for Beyoncé and how it shaped his discipline
The cost of code-switching and pressure to be palatable in Hollywood
His evolving views on love, family, and fatherhood — including a hint at future plans 👀
Why vulnerability, not bravado, is a man's real strength
This episode is a masterclass in shedding the performance and showing up as your whole self.
🎧 New episodes every Tuesday. 📺 Full video on YouTube.com/@xonecoletv available Wednesday 7/2 📲 Follow @xonecole and @kikisaidso for more.
In this episode of the xoMAN Podcast, Kiara Walker sits down with storyteller, father, and Dear Future Wifey host Laterras R. Whitfield for an unfiltered, soul-stirring conversation about manhood, healing, and the emotional scars too many men carry in silence.
From a failed marriage and parenting as a single Black man to adopting children and breaking generational cycles, Laterras opens up about the real work required to lead with integrity, vulnerability, and love. He also shares his personal lessons on cheating, abstinence, masculinity, and why the modern-day "manosphere" is often rooted in unresolved pain.
This is a powerful exploration of what it means to become the man you may have never seen growing up.
📅 New episodes every Tuesday (audio) | Wednesdays (video on YouTube)
💬 Stay connected with xoMAN & XONecole:
→ Instagram: @xonecole
→ YouTube: @xonecoletv
→ Website: www.xonecole.com
✨ Host: @kikisaidso
🎙️ Guest: @dearfuturewifeypodcast
🔗 www.dearfuturewifey.com
00:00:00 Intro & Welcome Laterras R. Whitfield
00:05:28 Red Flag / Green Flag
00:10:22 Behind the Man Segment
00:37:45 Love, Life, and Lessons
00:57:38 Hot Takes Segment
01:03:18 Ask an xoMAN: Advice Segment
01:05:12 Closing Reflections
Keywords: masculinity, healing, Black fatherhood, accountability, Dear Future Wifey, therapy for Black men, emotional growth, redefining manhood
In this premiere episode of the xoMAN Podcast, host Kiara Walker sits down with actor, content creator, husband, and father Devale Ellis (@iamdevale) for a raw, real, and revealing conversation about accountability, fatherhood, and what it really takes to be a partner.
Devale shares the lessons that reshaped how he shows up in marriage, the unlearning he had to do as a Black man raised to suppress his emotions, and how love without healing can become an obsession. From emotional unavailability to learning how to lead with love, this episode sets the tone for the powerful season ahead.
🔊 New episodes every Tuesday. Watch the full video on YouTube every Wednesday.
🖤 Stay Connected with xoMAN & xoNecole → Instagram: @xonecole → YouTube: @xonecoletv → Website: www.xonecole.com
✨ Host: @kikisaidso 🎙️ Guest: @iamdevale
Chapters
00:00:00 - Grace, Boundaries, and Intent
00:00:43 - Marriage as a Partnership
00:02:09 - Red Flag Green Flag Segment
00:03:36 - Father's Role
00:03:55 - Social Media and Relationships
00:05:11 - Behind The Man Segment
00:53:06 - Love, Life, Lessons
01:03:53 - Hot Takes Segment
01:05:07 - Ask an xoMAN Advice Segment
Credits:
Produced by:
Nimmi Mohan
Sheriden Garrett
London Whitson
Kiara Walker
Crew:
404 Creators
This is an xoNecole and Will Packer Media Production
Introducing xoMAN Podcast, where host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Through intimate interviews with Black men from all walks of life, xoMAN explores the unfiltered thoughts and stories of Black men as they navigate love, ambition, and self-discovery. This isn't just a podcast, it's a front-row seat to conversations that matter.
Hosted by Kiara Walker.
🎙️ Premieres Tuesday June 17th with Devale Ellis who shares lessons from therapy, partnership, and parenting.
This podcast will release new episodes on Tuesdays on all Audio platforms and on Wednesday for YouTube.
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