Chinese In-Laws 101: Tips for First Meet
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What preparations should you make when meeting your future Chinese-in-laws for the first time?
Here are some tips for your reference.
Dì yī tiáo, shāngliáng jiànmiàn de shíjiān hé dìdiǎn.
Suggestion 1: Discussing the meeting time and location.
你可以提前跟你的对象商量一下: 什么时间、什么地点见面比较合适。
Nǐ kěyǐ tíqián gēn nǐ de duìxiàng shāngliáng yīxià: shénme shíjiān, shénme dìdiǎn jiànmiàn bǐjiào héshì.
还有记得要提前告知对方的家长, 千万不要搞突然袭击。
Hái yǒu jìdé yào tíqián gàozhī duìfāng de jiāzhǎng, qiānwàn bùyào gǎo tūrán xíjī.
Zhèyàng rénjiā kěyǐ tíqián zhǔnbèi yīxià.
而且当你们正式见面的时候, 你还可以观察他们是否很重视你俩的这段关系。
Érqiě dāng nǐmen zhèngshì jiànmiàn de shíhou, nǐ hái kěyǐ guānchá tāmen shìfǒu hěn zhòngshì nǐ liǎ de zhè duàn guānxì.
Tóngshí yě biǎoshì le nǐ duì tāmen de zūnzhòng.
Dì èr tiáo, xuǎnzé héshì de lǐwù.
Suggestion 2: Choosing an appropriate gift.
Nǐ kěyǐ wèn nǐ de duìxiàng, tā de jiārén dōu xǐhuān shénme.
Sòng biérén xǐhuān de dōngxi kěndìng huì yíngdé tāmen hǎogǎn, búshì ma?
还有初次见面的礼物不需要太贵重, 跟你自己的经济实力相符就可以。
Hái yǒu chūcì jiànmiàn de lǐwù bù xūyào tài guìzhòng, gēn nǐ zìjǐ de jīngjì shílì xiāngfú jiù kěyǐ.
Dànshì yě bùyào tài hán suān.
寒酸就是说, 你送的礼物看起来不是用心去挑选的, 还给人一种你很小气的感觉。
Hán suān jiùshì shuō, nǐ sòng de lǐwù kànqǐlái bùshì yòngxīn qù tiāoxuǎn de, hái gěi rén yī zhǒng nǐ hěn xiǎoqì de gǎnjué.
如果实在是不知道要送什么好的话, 你可以送一些具有你们国家特色的东西。
Rúguǒ shízài shì bù zhīdào yào sòng shénme hǎo de huà, nǐ kěyǐ sòng yīxiē jùyǒu nǐmen guójiā tèsè de dōngxi.
Dì sān tiáo, gàosù duìxiàng bāng nǐ jiěwéi.
Suggestion 3: Share with your partner to help navigate.
在你跟他的家人聊天的时候, 你可能会遇到一些你不想回答的问题。
Zài nǐ gēn tā de jiārén liáotiān de shíhou, nǐ kěnéng huì yùdào yīxiē nǐ bù xiǎng huídá de wèntí.
Zhège shíhou ne, nǐ kěyǐ ràng nǐ de duìxiàng bāng nǐ yīxià.
Zhèyàng ne, nǐ jiù bùyòng qù huídá zhège wèntí le.
Zhège ne jiù jiàozuò jiěwéi.
Zuìhòu, wǒ xiǎng wèn dàjiā yīgè wèntí.
Finally, I want to ask everyone a question.
在你们的国家, 第一次去见对方的家长的时候, 你们都会带一些什么礼物呢?
Zài nǐmen de guójiā, dì yī cì qù jiàn duìfāng de jiāzhǎng de shíhou, nǐmen dōu huì dài yīxiē shénme lǐwù ne?
In your country, when you first meet your partner's parents, what
gifts do you usually bring?
Huānyíng zài xiàfāng liúyán, fēnxiǎng gěi wǒmen!
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