You Can Tell Me

In today's episode of You Can Tell Me, I Think I'm Gay shares how she ended her marriage to her partner of 12 years when she realized she wasn't sexually attracted to men anymore. She discusses the hardship of going through a divorce while also coming to terms with her sexuality.

Survival strategies mentioned in this episode include:

• Take some space from your ex after your break-up. Space helps.
• Maintain boundaries with your ex even when it is challenging.

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A Cellist joins us this week to talk about ending her high school relationship when starting college due to massive jealousy issues. Between the clingy texts and the long-distance, there was no chance this musical duo was going to make it work long-term.

Survival strategies mentioned in this episode:

• Cry for a week, then listen to Lizzo.
• If you are planning to break up with someone, don't let it drag out for too long.

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Introducing a new series: ARE THEY STILL TOGETHER?! Every month, the You Can Tell Me will analyze a famous rom com couple and determine whether or not they are still together, based on the information we know about relationships now.

Today's film is When Harry Met Sally (1989) dir. Rob Reiner. The duo discusses whether or not Harry and Sally would still be together if this was IRL, and they try to answer the question of the film: "can men and women be friends without wanting to sleep with one another?"

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On today's episode of You Can Tell Me, our guest tells us about an on again, off again relationship that has finally reached its conclusion after her ex's inability to understand what truly connecting really means.

Survival strategies mentioned in this episode include:

• Journal your feelings while you are having them – keep track of what isn't serving you in the relationship.
• Be honest and open with your partner – the person who is meant for you is not going to walk away if you are truly being yourself.

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Aasha Wells from MTV's Are You The One, Come One Come All joins the You Can Tell Me team to talk about her experience dating on a reality TV show!

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*CONTENT WARNING* This episode contains detailed discussion of sexual acts.

A Reality TV Star recounts the story of her first boyfriend. With model looks and a massive ego, A Reality TV Star's ex had some trouble respecting boundaries which, as we know by now, is a big NO.

Be sure to tune in on Thursday for a bonus episode wherein this guest tells all about her experience being on a Reality TV show.

Survival strategies in this episode include:

• Give your heartbreak time. Time heals all wounds.
• Trust that you will find someone who won't think your rules are ridiculous.

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At the Bodega tells us about their most recent breakup, and subsequent adventurous night with their ex, and how to stick to your decisions when you know it's best for the long term.

Survival strategies in this episode:

• Really consider what your decisions will mean for you and your ex before you make them
• Rely on the people you can truly be yourself with in the aftermath of the break-up

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The You Can Tell Me team sits down with Lizz and Shayna from You Should Have Ghosted  to discuss scary online dating and red flags to look out for if you are dipping your toes back into dating!

Check out our episode on the You Should Have Ghosted feed here.

Red flags mentioned in this episode:

• Meeting up the night you met on the app
• When someone doesn't have pictures of themself on their dating profile
• When someone changes up plans last minute
• When someone doesn't know, appreciate, or admire Judy Greer's work (this was obviously my contribution)

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Boss Girl is done with situationships. In this episode, she talks through how her last foray into the gray area of entanglements ended, and the steps she is taking to find that one special someone to be a simp for.

Survival strategy:

• Anticipate that you will feel tempted to go back to your ex because it was comfortable – know who to turn to in those moments when your ex is simply not the best option.

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The You Can Tell Me team catches up with Hot Girl from Episode 12: Should've, Could've, Would've. She shares a fun relationship update!

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