In this episode, we explore how clarity doesn’t come from overthinking—it comes from showing up. We talk about how investing effort into what you’re unsure about is the only real way to find out if it’s meant for you. Whether it’s in dating, creative pursuits, or life decisions, taking action dissolves anxiety and leads to certainty—whether it’s a yes or a no. Tune in for a mindful reminder that your answers are on the other side of commitment.

In this episode, we dive into a conversation Derrick had with a friend who felt like he just wasn’t on the radar with women—and how that used to resonate with both of us. Together, we unpack the idea that attraction isn’t a formula—it’s subjective. There’s no one-size-fits-all blueprint. We share our own stories of chasing validation, feeling “not enough,” and how we both shifted from a mindset of lack to one rooted in self-worth. If you’ve ever questioned what makes you attractive or felt like you were doing something wrong, this one’s for you.

In this episode, We talk about the true essence of creativity... how it’s not just for artists, but for anyone willing to bring an idea to life. We share the behind-the-scenes of our recent reel at Tantalus, reflect on why we lose touch with our creativity as we grow up, and how we can reclaim it. Whether you’re a creator or just feeling stuck, this one’s a reminder that creativity is intelligence having fun and it’s never too late to play again.

In this episode, Derrick and Zac unpack the emotional cost of changing yourself just to feel chosen. From childhood comparisons to chasing love through self-abandonment, they reflect on their personal experiences of trying to prove their worth in relationships. Together, they explore why so many of us feel the need to perform for love—and how true connection can only come when we choose ourselves first. If you’ve ever felt like you had to earn love by being someone you’re not, this conversation is for you.

In this episode, we are diving more into the unhealthy ways we try to escape discomfort. A few of our friends drink alcohol until blackouts, take drugs recreationally, while we both admit to fapping our feelings away LOL. Let's explore healthier ways with dealing with discomfort!

We talk about how limerence consumes you to the point of delusion, crafting an idea of a person that is not aligned with REALITY. Love doesn't feel anxious. It feels SAFE and consistent.

In this episode, we talk about our lowest point in our lives and how that actually ended up becoming our catalysts for GROWTH. Come with us on our journey exploring who we became despite our struggles.

In this episode, we talk about other sources of love, outside of romantic love, that can fulfill you. Mainly, how friendships can give that longer lasting love and how it is different in comparison of romance.

We go in to talking about our recent social event and how safe love should feel like.

In this episode, we are discussing how we react to emotional triggers or reactions when involved in conflict. We recently been through so BEEF within our Pickleball group and we wanna explore how we resolved that situation but focus more on how we initially reacted and our understanding of why we reacted in such a way.

In this episode, we are talking about traveling opportunities - what it's like traveling for work vs. vacation, how we came upon these opportunities, and what it takes to attract these opportunities into your own life!