Your Place or Mine

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about kink. 

As the world opens up and more and more of us are fully vaccinated, my libido is rising and I'm here for it! I share my personal kinks and talk a bit about where they came from and how it unfolded. Hear what's on my wish list coming up and why a bi MMF is at the top of the list.

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Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk Tinder 101.

As someone who has successfully met loads of great men on Tinder, we unpack some of my advice on how to set up your profile for success. How many photos should you have? Why is one not enough? Why shouldn't you include a picture with you and 14 other friends? This is a dating app not Where's Waldo, babes. Hear how I started with Tinder back in my hard hoe phase, and what it's like now as the world slowly opens up. 

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Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk bikini bodies.

My journey with my relationship with swimsuits has been a rollercoaster since I was a kid. As someone whose body has been through big changes over the years with weight loss and weight gain, my views have changed on how I feel in swimwear drastically.

I had a big realization this year. I didn’t understand why I was comfortable being photographed completely naked, that I was comfortable going to a sex club completely naked, and was comfortable going to a clothing optional beach and being naked… BUT why did I feel like I needed to cover myself up on other beaches? Why was I wearing these one piece swimsuits to cover myself up in more public spaces? Why can I stare at myself in the mirror in the morning naked and absolutely love my body but feel I had to hide myself in a full coverage suit.

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Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This episode is part of a spin-off series called Your Place or WINE, where Bae gets lit with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, we're joined again by the gorgeous babe, Edna Millions. We found this ridiculous list of 29 questions and decided to answer a bunch in the middle of the night after 8 hours back on patios here in Toronto!

Who would you let punch you directly in the face? What's the weirdest place you've ever intentionally vomited? What's the most money you've ever drunkenly spent at McDonalds? How intolerable do you find baby pictures on Facebook? Have you ever wondered what Bae's answers are to these questions? No? Well you're getting it anyway! 

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Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Saeed Atabaki (@insta_you_read_me_). Pride month is upon us, and Saeed shares what it was like growing up queer in London, Ontario. We unpack the importance to the queer community of having books and films that are relatable to their personal stories. We cover recommendations to check out, and chat about how to be a better ally in queer spaces. We touch on the roots of Pride, and why the queer community has always done a better job of talking about kink. Check out the full book and move recommendation list and more episodes at www.baesavage.com. 

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's new friends, Bella Mitchell (@missyinkbella). Hear how she worked her way from being a model to starting a magazine to working in food and wine and then cannabis. She shares her journey with her relationship with her body, and how she lost thousands of women followers when she decided to incorporate yoga into her life. 

We unpack the challenges with being a curvy, plus size woman versus being society's version of a thin and attractive woman, and what that means for the rules around what you can post online. Is posting a selfie in your underwear sexual? How is it different from posting a bikini shot? Why are more people uncomfortable with the former if it's a plus sized body? Why do curvy women get more hate from men, while thin women get more hate from women? Tune in to hear more.

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about five fantastic first dates from my past that never made it to a second date. 

Meet Trevor, the smokin' hot Calgary silver fox who was a hard 10. We shared half priced wine and a night of passion at a fancy boutique hotel that led to orgasms and a sleepover. 

Meet Kerry, the adorable LA front man who I shot my shot with at a local bar and took him out on the town to show him around Toronto. From tacos and beer and swanky cocktails to a night to remember before he had to go move his van at 7AM.

Meet Adrian, the odd rich man who I bonded with over weed in his flashy red convertible. Follow us into a night at the Drake Hotel that took a bit of an off turn under the sheets.

Meet Ian, the somewhat-sugar-daddy who wined me and then swept me upstairs to his condo inside one of Toronto's swankiest hotels. All kinds of first class. 

Finally... one of the most memorable bangs of my life. Meet Jared, colloquially called The Thick Dick Banker. Not only was this an amazing first with one of the most beautiful men I've ever been with... but the absolute MAJESTY of what this man had in his pants was life altering.

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Samantha Kemp Upton Thomas. Hear how she married a man she met as a pre-teen, and how it evolved into an amazing marriage. We unpack what life was like during the pandemic and how she started not one, but two of her own businesses. We joke about this episode being a monogamy promotion piece, as Sam and her husband Matt have a truly wonderful relationship. We finish off talking about her egg donation journey, and handling awkward questions about our life choices. 

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Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of friends, Danijela Kovac. In this episode, we hear about Dani's journey through alcoholism and sobriety. We unpack what it's like to date as a sober person, and offer advice if you're dating someone who is sober. Hear how her path led her to start Teetotaler wines and how she's falling in love with herself hard. Be sure to check her out on social @teetotalerwines or by visiting teetolaterwines.com

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about confidence. I have had a complicated relationship with confidence, as my body has gone through changes and so has my life. I'm ever-evolving into this amazing, boss, confident babe, and I'm realizing that it has more to do with how I'm caring for me than how I'm validated by others.