Your Place or Mine

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, the creator of SLXT Merch (@slxtmerch), Sim Thind (@sim_thind). Sim started this amazing clothing line in 2020 and is passionate about reclaiming the word slut. Hear how she decided to become an entrepreneur and why she's a self-proclaimed SLXT. In this episode we bring you your first Babecave Lightning Round, asking questions our guest hadn't heard prior to this episode. Learn whether or not we can tie a cherry stem with our teeth and what happened when Sim accidentally posted a late-night nude on Instagram. 

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's new friends, Emma Hewson. (@emma.louise.hewson on Instagram) Emma is a musician and a teacher and was also recently photographed for Now Magazine's Love Your Body 2021 feature. Hear more about why we decided to participate in the shoot, how it felt to share these images online, and both the positive and not-so-positive responses we both faced. Learn about the complicated relationship we've both had with our bodies and where we are at now.

If you haven't seen the feature, you can here: https://nowtoronto.com/lifestyle/love-your-body

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's besties, Cashmere Glow. As their time living as roomies here in the Babecave comes to a close, they reminisce about their first time individually at Oasis, a Toronto sex club. These circumstances were wildly different between the two, get ready for this spicy talk. This is also another chapter of Bae's partnership with Aiden and his alter ego from episode three. 

TRIGGER WARNING: The episode includes a discussion regarding a recent sexual assault. If you're not in a place to hear this content, please do not listen past the first 20 minutes.

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Carlen Costa. Carlen is a Sexologist and Psychotherapist, Founder of The Everyday Goddess and the Goddess Foundation. 

In this episode, we chat about why she got into the work she's doing and how she teaches people how to love and be loved. We talk about dating in 2020 and Carlen shares about her recent sexual assault while she was on a date with someone she thought was her friend. This is a heavy episode and a very hard conversation. I thank Carlen for her bravery and openness with us on this very vulnerable topic. 

Find Carlen on Instagram @carlen.costa and @theeverydaygoddessbrand, or check her out at www.carlencosta.com. 

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one another of Bae's favourite local comedians, John Mostyn (@mostyncomedy). The first cis-het man welcomed onto the show! 

In this conversation, we talk about how he shifted from doing comedy to starting an amazing and successful vegan pie business (@thepielander). We talk about sober dates, accents, and being called daddy. Learn what it was like to date for John in 2020, and why he's taking a break. This is a bit of a longer episode, as the conversation shifts to the issues we see with dating in Toronto, and John opens up about the importance of knowing what you want if you want to be a good partner. We unpack some of the challenges we see, and how important it is for men to take a step back and focus on both self-improvement and self-love. 

This is a refreshing conversation, and I think it's important to have guests on the show who show another side of things. We can share stories about dating men and how disappointing men can be, but there are a lot of really great men here in the city who are putting in the work to be better and that can give us babes some hope!

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, learn about the second half of the Influential Eight, the 8 men outside of my primary partners who helped to influence how I view relationships and taught me important lessons about love and sex. 

Shoutout to everyone who's showered me with love and positivity since recently being featured along with 5 other beautiful humans for Now Magazine's Love Your Body 2021 issue. If you haven't seen it, this is a yearly nude photoshoot that features stories about self-love and body positivity. I was honored to be involved and thrilled with how the photos turned out, check them out on my Instagram @baesavagexo or by visiting nowtoronto.com.

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Breton Lalama. Breton is a hilarious and smokin' hot non-binary, nonmonogamous human who works as a stand-up comedian, actor, and writer! Learn what it was like coming from a small town to the big city, traveling with the production Hair, and what kind of conversations come up on Tinder as a trans/non-binary person. We also talk about the weirdest porn we've seen, and hear about Breton's upcoming Netflix appearance! Follow Breton on Instagram @bretonlikethecrackers

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends/ favourite local servers/ Only Fans star, Kylee Francirek. Learn about what it's like to be a babe in the service industry, what jealousy looks like in new nonmonogamous relationships, why no one wants to get 'slug dick fucked', and what it's like to have a career on Only Fans. (@kyleeunlikely_ on Instagram)

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, learn about the first three of the Influential Eight, the 8 men outside of my primary partners who helped to influence how I view relationships and taught me important lessons about love and sex. 

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This is the first of a spin-off series called Your Place or HIGH, where Bae gets baked with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, welcome back the amazing Edna Millions, and hear about outdoor sex, nude etiquette, and orgasms from the deep past.