One day, Ali Muldrow of Madison, Wisconsin realized she was using some of the same catchphrases on her daughters that her parents used on her. So, Muldrow  started to think about the kind of person she is versus the kind of person she wants her kids to be able to become. To her surprise, her eldest daughter was right there to help her figure it out. The following story was told at The Moth, during an open-mic StorySLAM in Madison  where the theme of the night was “Wonders.” Here’s Ali Muldrow live at The Moth.