You’re Not for Everyone

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A people pleaser is someone who has a strong desire to please others, often at the expense of their own needs. People pleasers may be empathetic, caring, and good at understanding others' feelings. However, they may also have low self-esteem, a need for control, or a tendency to overachieve.  Jackie explains where that people pleasing behavior may have started and she provides ways to take your power back!

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

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Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

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Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
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People with anxious attachment styles may have difficulty feeling secure in their relationships, even though they desire to feel close to their partners. This need can be driven by low self-esteem, mistrust, and fears of abandonment. Anxious attachment styles can develop in childhood and affect intimate relationships later in life.  Jackie provides tools to help move you toward being more secure.  She also provides guidance for parents to help their children become more secure. 

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Do you self-sabotage?  Repeat unhealthy patterns?  Consistently date the wrong people?  Have conflicts with family or in the workplace?  Have low self esteem and lack confidence?  Feel unsafe in this world?  All of these may be cause by childhood emotional wounds and perceptions.  Jackie shares how to heal your inner child and if you are a parent, how to guide your child in managing their own perceptions.  

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Guilt is a feeling you get when you did something wrong, or perceived you did something wrong. Shame is a feeling that your whole self is wrong, and it may or may not be related to a specific behavior or event.  Jackie shares the difference between healthy guilt, unhealthy guilt and shame and ways to navigate through each toward healing.  

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Jackie shares her personal journey that lead her to choose to stop drinking.  She shares how our alcohol is so ingrained in our culture and how it can be a challenge to go against the herd.   She also shares the struggles and the joys of living a sober curious life!!!

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Our daily choices  can bring joy or pain, success or defeat, energy or lethargy to our lives.  Jackie shares how what we repeatedly do sets the tone for our happiness or lack there of.  Everything from our morning routine, to our diet, to the people we spend time all have an impact on how well we live our lives.

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Yes adults can be bullies.  Bullying is defined as a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying can take the form of physical contact, words, or more subtle actions.  Jackie explains why people may become adult bullies and gives some tools on how to manage these difficult people.

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Perfectionism becomes toxic when its a gripping desire for success.  Perfectionists are most focused on avoiding failure that could result in negative criticism and judgment. They don’t believe in unconditional love, expecting others’ affection and approval to be dependent on a flawless performance.  Perfectionism can negatively affect relationships and can also cause physical symptoms such as migraines.  

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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We all grieve differently and grieving from a tragedy is both intense and surreal. However we move through grief, trauma, or pain, it's important that we honor how we're feeling, whether that's through journaling, therapy, support groups, or friends. Allowing ourselves to feel, talk, vent, and weep is part of the healing process.  Jackie shares her own experience of navigating the dark night of the soul and provides guidance toward healing after a tragedy.   

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1

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Child sexual abuse is defined as sexual activity with a child by an adult, adolescent or older child. If any adult engages in sexual activity with a child,  both physical and non physical, that is sexual abuse.   Jackie shares the impact this abuse has on a child's development and how it can impact future adult functioning and relationships.    ***Warning:  This topic may be triggering to victims of sexual abuse.

This podcast is a combination of Jackie's clinical insight as well as her wisdom & life experience gained from years of mentoring, coaching & counseling.

Purchase
Jackie's Workbook (based on the podcast): https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Workbook-Soulful/dp/B0B92DVFF8/ref=sr_1_15?crid=3CEWRDFEKYXVQ&keywords=you%27re+not+for+everyone&qid=1660243638&sprefix=youre+not+for+everyone%2Caps%2C107&sr=8-15
Jackie's Memoir Book: https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Everyone-Soulful-Authentic/dp/B09MJBQNVR/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5C0OB49OYM32&keywords=youre+not+for+everyone+book&qid=1653315704&sprefix=youre+not+for+%2Caps%2C80&sr=8-1:  

Support the show

 Click here to support Jackie's show:  https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jackiehenderson
Website:  www.safesoulcenter.org
Fitness & Dance Website:  www.mistfitness.com
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/yourenotforevery1