You're Such A Catch

Aaron turns the tables on Erin, asking her to share her story of coming out, referring to her being open and honest about wanting to date outside her race.  Even though the two situations, sexuality, and race are vastly different, there are common themes when vocalizing preference.  Fear of acceptance, being a big one, and living up to societal standards, but most importantly, finding the courage to honor your true authentic self.  

As humans who are often a product of our generation, environment, and upbringing, it's vital that we learn and educate ourselves on things we don't understand.  Think empathy and acceptance.

If you or someone you know is struggling with coming out, know you're not alone.  The Los Angeles LGBT Center has several resources available.

Aaron Vicondoa  @vicondoa

Joshua Torres @jptorres813

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Do you have a self-reflection practice?  Self-reflection is no more than being your own best friend, confidant, and trusted advisor.  Remember the definition of insanity, doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result; self-reflection will prevent that from happening.

Erin shares her personal self-reflection practice and how it's been beneficial to her growth mindset as her relationship with self evolves.

Challenge yourself to start a self-reflection practice today to prevent an unhealthy pattern of manifesting things you don't want. 

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

On August 9th, 2015, Erin made a list of everything she wanted in a man.  She listed out each characteristic, attribute, and trait she felt would make her a perfect match.  Then she swiped aimlessly, said yes to almost every man who asked her out, ignored red flags, and tried to mold the men who appeared at first glance to mirror that list into the man she envisioned.  

Erin listened to the advice of relationship experts and coaches.  She shared her journey openly on this podcast.  She was willing to do anything and everything to crack the code, to find the special sauce, not just for herself but for all the other singles out there in the same boat.

All the while, Erin was working on herself, her confidence, and finding happiness within.

On January 13th, 2021, Erin received an email with a four-minute voice note from a man who found her on Hinge.  He couldn't match with her because he didn't have any roses but say she had a podcast and used that as a means to find her.  He wanted to stick out from a crowd, so he used his gift of voice to pursue her with intent.  

Meet JaMarr, the unicorn Erin manifested.  Tune in to hear their modern-day digital romance story.

JaMarr John Johnson @jamarrj

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Matchmaker and Founder of Single in the City, Laura Bilotta shares tips on how to date while we're still in a pandemic. She explains why she believes video calls are necessary to qualify your dates, and she shares her suggestion as to when the video call should occur.

Laura and Erin discuss chemistry and compatibility, sharing personal dating experiences and what they've learned from different relationships.  The two-state the obvious, women love gentlemen.  

If you're currently single and need some guidance on where to begin your dating journey, start here. 

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Laura Bilotta @officiallaurabilotta

www.singleinthecity.ca

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

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Today, Courtney is a Sober Coach and Host of the Sober Vibes Podcast.  She shares her story in hopes to help women who may be experiencing a similar relationship with alcohol.  Courtney explains to Erin that her belief is trauma is the gateway to addiction, and alcoholism does not discriminate.

Erin asks Courtney for some tips for those who are sober and dating and those who may have swiped right on someone sober.  Life doesn't have to end once a decision to be sober is made.  Courtney will suggest, it's only just begun. 

Courtney Andersen @sobervibes

www.courtneyrecovered.com

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

You're Such a Catch was invited to host a Kiss & Tell booth at the Manhattan Village Pop-up Market.  It was the first of hopefully many live events Erin attended.

Event attendance was mostly women, women who were vulnerable enough to share they had given up hope when it came to love, dating apps, and finding the one.  Erin shared her personal story, from being a divorcée to recently manifesting a man.  She encouraged the women never to give up, continue working on themselves, and remain open to what the universe has in store.

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

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With any new year comes a fresh slate, but a new year isn't necessary to change your thinking, your perspective, or to make a decision to choose happiness over fear, doubt, insecurities, and any event from the past that holds you back from greatness.

If you've been unable to move forward after an event or trauma, make a conscious choice today to leave the past in the past. Find the lesson even if it's buried by hurt, pain, or sadness.  The next step, push forward, one foot in front of the other until you find your rhythm and finally your strength. 

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

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Everyone told her she was funny, she should do standup, so she took an improv class, and the rest is history.  Amazing Grace!

This body-positive funny girl learned to love her curves and find comfort in front of the camera.  Whether she's rocking grannie panties or a thong, you'll always know.  This was her bit on Spanish Playboy Radio back in the day.  Since you couldn't see her and only hear her, she'd describe her panties to the audience.  Now you can see 360 degrees of Grace on her Lay Down Comedy show in her sexy lingerie.  

Grace advocates for mental health, body positivity, she encourages women to know self-defense, and she'll make you laugh until you pee your pants.  Welcome to the State of Grace.  More than funny; it's a condition. 

Grace Fraga  @gracefragacomedy

www.gracefraga.com 

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

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A single Kate Steinberg was swiping on Hinge, Raya, and Bumble in search of her perfect match.  She was going on dates each and every week, hoping to find a strong connection.  One night she got home from a date with a tear in her tights, seven glasses of wine deep, and thought maybe she was destined to be a Cat Lady.

Tune in to hear how Kate manifested her own love story, in that very castle she saw, in Austria, on a reality TV show with a fairytale ending you won't want to miss.  In my best Natasha Rothwell narration, "It's going to be fine.  He saw my cat rap.  Who doesn't love cat rap?"

Kate Steinberg @itskatesteinberg

You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.

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The two discuss the importance of being upfront and honest and why someone might ghost versus spitting the truth if they're not interested. Erin also asks GQ some of the juicy questions women submitted, wanting his male perspective:

1. How can I talk to my significant other about our slow sex life?
2. You say you like a girl to be aggressive and text first, but we get ghosted when we do. Why?
3. How do I know if a guy is really into me or if he's just lonely because of the pandemic?
4. I've been hooking up with a guy. The sex is amazing. I enjoy his company, but I know he's not going to take things to the next level. Do I ride this wave until it flattens, or should I tell him I'd like to be more than friends with benefits?
5. How do I avoid always being friend-zoned? I hit it off with a guy, and we seem to be having a great time together, then he says he'd be down to "chill" again, but not romantically.

Just GQ @gq50

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You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey.  YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more.  A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast.  To make your pledge today, visit www.youresuchacatch.com/unfiltered.