Yours Druelee

I've crossed off one of my life goals I've set for myself to accomplish as I restart my life journey into singleness. Instead of dreaming and visioning what I can have in my life and knowing what my life purpose is, I've turned it into a reality. For all my single ladies and gents, don't just sit there and dream about your life. If you are passionate about a hobby, turn it into a career and make it your reality. Make something out of your life and do better for yourself. Throughout the process, trust the time and especially trust God. 

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

**DISCLAIMER: If you have loving and wonderful in-laws that are not toxic, then this episode is not for you. I go hard and real with what I am about to tell on this episode. If you cannot handle the truth, my sense of humor, and my explicit language, then I advise you to skip this episode! So sit back and enjoy.

As I mentioned in my previous mini episode, I’m so over with talking about the Lost family. This will conclude the chapter of my past as I am in a better place in my life where I no longer have any desire to talk about them. However, since the title of this episode is about toxic in-laws, let me share with you the treatments I went through as a daughter-in-law. Some may say that my experience wasn’t as bad, however when people especially in-laws who are very manipulative, controlling, and have no common sense, that is what I consider toxic. And please let me know, what is the proper procedures when it comes to traditional Hmong wedding? Keep listening, you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

The very first mini episode!!

Mini episodes will only be 10-15 minutes long. I know some of ya'll prefer the shorter version of my episodes so I figured I start uploading short ones. It'll be on my current thoughts and what I am going through as I navigate my daily life. Thanks again for supporting and listening as always.

On this mini episode, I conclude my talk on Lost family as I am so over them and am ready for what is ahead of me. To new friendships, journey, love and happiness! 11:11 

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

**DISCLAIMER: I go hard and real with what I am about to tell on this episode. If you cannot handle the truth, my sense of humor, and my explicit language, then I advise you to skip this episode!

I’ve admit that I have daddy issue. My dad wasn’t the father I needed him to be during the process of my divorce and after residing with him for a short period of time. On this episode, I tell the details of how he treated me during and after my divorce, how I was able to understand my mom and lost mom views of their husband and why they don’t want anything to do with them because they are not the best husband or father figure, my relationship with my mom is not as close as I though it could have been, and I give 8 helpful tips for those who are dealing with toxic parents and how you can live a peaceful and cordial life with or without them.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

Disclaimer!! Let's have a crying session. That means grab a tissue or two because you might need it!

On this episode I am back from taking a break. I am sharing with you my raw emotions on how I have been feeling in the past weeks. So many mix emotions have arise and I am currently dealing with it after completing nail school. I'm so proud of myself for accomplishing a life goal that I've been wanting to complete for years now. It goes to show that I shouldn't over think about things that can become a good outcome, and realizing that it's ok to be in the present of my emotions, rather than suppressing them.  

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

In life there are life lessons we need to learn in order to not make the same mistakes again. On this episode, I go in depth of a few things I’ve learned after my divorce. These lessons that I have learned from will help me to know who I will be dealing with when I do meet that special person in the future. I’ll know what to look for so that I don’t repeat the same cycle. In transition from being a married woman into a single woman, I have a few things I’ll be sharing with you on what I am currently working on and will be in the future as I embark the single life.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

Just when you thought ending the relationship was the end of it all, your emotions of missing that person and wanting to work things out are still there. You have hopes in reconnecting with that person because either you or they still have the door open to potentially walk back into each other’s life. In this episode, I use my real life examples of how I was able to have that closure with Lost Boy.

Having that closure can either be good or bad. I experience both. Even people who aren’t in the marriage/relationship tries to insert themselves (Lost Mom) into the conversation because they want their two cent in it. Besides that, close that door so that you can open more doors for growth, opportunity, and eventually new love.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

I had to question God as to why would Lost Boy do what he did to me. Was I in the wrong in all of our problems? I had an epiphany. In this episode I will go in depths of how Lost Boy could never love me or any other women the way we all deserved to be loved because of his own unhealed childhood traumas. Having mommy issue is no excuse for his behavior and who he is as a person. I share my own daddy issue and I never use our non existing father-daughter relationship as an excuse for my life decisions. As you live your life and make choices, there is no excuses to point fingers at others. Take accountability of your life, or else you’ll end up being lost.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

After my divorce, for some reason I had a spiritual awakening. I’ve began to have so many questions about my culture, religion, and if there is more out in the world that I am missing or do not know of that is more greater than what I know now. In this episode I will be discussing in depths of my views on Hmong culture, being a Christian, and seeking other spiritual things to heal and enhance my spiritual journey. I couldn’t do this along and there where people that I found on social media who have helped me understand not only who I am as a person, but to understand the mind of men, relationships, my life purpose, and becoming the best version of myself.

Disclaimer:

This episode will trigger Hmong people and christian believers as I do go in depth and express my true emotions and opinions about these certain people. Listen per your discretion.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

*This is part 2 of this episode. Please continue listening for the entire full stories.*

On this episode, I will be discussing in depth why I decided to leave my marriage and that is due to the disrespect from the Lost In-laws and of course Lost Boy (Ex). Added to that, infidelity play a role in my reason for leaving the relationship. You be the judge. Do you think the way Lost Boy did to me was consider cheating at the end of our marriage even though we didn’t officially culturally divorce?

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee