Yours Druelee

Living alone and living with a partner are two distinct experiences that come with their own set of advantages and challenges. It provides individuals with independence, freedom, and solitude. They have the freedom to make decisions, manage their own space, and establish their own routines. Living with a partner, on the other hand, offers companionship, shared responsibilities, and emotional support. Couples can share the joys and burdens of daily life, build a shared future, and experience a deep sense of connectedness. While both options can be fulfilling, it ultimately depends on individual preferences, lifestyle, and stage of life.

Although I have lived my life as a single woman and I advocate for anyone to experience living solo, I do have to say there are things I do miss about living with a partner. Social media has become a powerful platform for shaping and portraying the concept of living the single life, and it often does so in both enticing and cautionary ways. Of course you’ll see single people post images of exciting adventures, spontaneous travels, and self-discovery projects that paint a compelling picture of single life as liberating and full of possibilities.

On the flip side, social media can also cast a shadow on the single life, as it can sometimes magnify feelings of loneliness or inadequacy. The curated posts of seemingly perfect couples and family moments can create unrealistic expectations, making single individuals question their own happiness. This differences in how social media portrays the single life underscores the complex interplay between reality and perception in the digital age, where it's essential to remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the screen.

So on this episode, I’ll be sharing my experience and the struggles I have living as a single woman. For the most part, living alone has it’s perks, however there are things that single people don’t tell you and I’m one of those few who will tell you the negative side of living alone. To hear more about my experience living as a single woman, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

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❤️ Yours Druelee

Taking self-accountability and recognizing the wrongs during a marriage is a courageous and transformative process. It involves a deep and honest look within, acknowledging one's own mistakes, behaviors, and shortcomings that may have contributed to marital issues. This introspection is not about assigning blame but about understanding the dynamics of the relationship and one's role in it. When we recognized our own wrongdoings rather than placing blame on our partner, it is an acknowledgment that, in any relationship, both individuals contribute to its dynamics, whether positive or negative. By focusing on our own actions, behaviors, and choices, we open the door to self-improvement, personal growth, and the potential for healthier relationships. In this exploration of taking responsibility for our actions within a marriage, we delve into the strength of self-awareness and the capacity to create positive change by addressing our own shortcomings and behaviors.

Instead of being the victim in my last relationship, I have to take a step back, reflect, and ask myself,  what those things I’ve done or have said that resulted the end of the relationship? To find out more on the things Ive learned and discovered after my divorce, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

Things I did that ended my previous relationship:

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❤️Yours Druelee

Knowing when to call it quits in a marriage is a complex and deeply personal decision. It's a point in a relationship where the challenges, conflicts, or issues have reached a critical moment, and the question of whether to continue or end the marriage becomes important to an individual life choices. This introspective journey involves careful reflection on the dynamics of the relationship, the well-being of both partners, and the overall quality of life within the marriage. In this exploration of when to consider ending a marriage, we search into the signs, factors, and considerations that can help individuals make this profound and life-altering decision with wisdom and clarity.

On this episode, I share with you the 10 reasons to determine when to call quits in a marriage. I’m sure there are more reasons to take into considerations however, these reasons are important to know if you are thinking about divorcing your partner or will actually help you start your divorce proceeding. If you want to learn more about the 10 reasons to call it quits in a marriage, continue listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

10 Reasons to Call It Quits In A Marriage:

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❤️Yours Druelee

Breaking generational curses is a powerful and transformative journey that challenges the patterns, beliefs, and behaviors passed down through family lines. These curses, often rooted in negative cycles of behavior or trauma, can exert a significant influence on our lives and choices. The act of breaking these patterns involves conscious awareness, introspection, and a commitment to healing and personal growth. By choosing to dismantle these inherited limitations, individuals pave the way for positive change, not only for themselves but for future generations. This exploration of breaking generational curses illuminates the strength of self-awareness and the potential to rewrite the narrative of our families, paving the path toward empowerment and liberation.

Whatever generational curses you have in your life in regards to your upbringing and the dos and don’t you have known all your life that has shape you as a person currently, what are those generational curses have you changed or no longer live for? There’s so many things I’ve have changed in my life where I no longer believe, tolerate, or live by, and I am one of the few who are breaking those generational curses. To find out more on what those curses are, continue listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

So far, these are the 8 Generational Curses I have broken in my current life:

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❤️Yours Druelee

!!Disclaimer!!

This episode will contain explicit topic, triggering and sexual words that may not be appropriate for ages under 18 years old. Please listen per your discretion, you have been warn!!

The journey of dating is a complex dance, where two individuals embark on a mutual exploration of connection and compatibility. While the focus often lies on the qualities that draw us closer, it's equally important to acknowledge the "turn offs" that can act as stumbling blocks on this path. These are the traits, behaviors, or attitudes that have the potential to extinguish the spark of attraction and hinder the natural flow of getting to know someone. By recognizing these turn offs, we equip ourselves with the wisdom to navigate the dating landscape with authenticity and awareness. This exploration of dating's turn offs serves as a compass, guiding us toward healthier, more fulfilling connections by helping us identify what doesn't resonate with our values, desires, and aspirations.

On this episode, I will be sharing my turn-off’s when it comes to meeting/ dating guys for the first time and the things they do or say that turns me off. I mean, I get that men are sexual being, but can’t they leave that topic for later discussion and not during our first meet up? I tell the latest man that I met on my San Diego trip and why he is a no go for me. 

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❤️Yours Druelee

A decade of life is a remarkable journey that can transform us in profound ways, shaping our perspectives, ambitions, and character. This evolution is a testament to the human capacity for growth and adaptation. The lessons learned during these transformative years become a compass guiding us toward greater self-awareness, resilience, and fulfillment. As we reflect on how a single decade can change our lives for the better, we unveil the beauty of embracing change, learning from experiences, and discovering the strength within ourselves.

I had to reflect on my years in my 20’s where there were good and bad things I have experience and I am forever grateful for those experiences. For my listeners who just enter or are currently in your 20’s, on this episode I share 8 things I’ve wished I could of done differently and the advices you can take from me to enjoy your life in your 20’s.

8 Things I Could Of Done Differently In My 20's:

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❤️Yours Druelee

It's been a month since my last episode. Let's just say that I am soaking up the last few weeks of what is left of the summer season and I needed a break. But don't worry, I'll be back to normal posting and always stay tuned to my up coming episodes as always!

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❤️Yours Druelee

Don’t judge an independent women just because she may show more of her masculine side. There are two types of independent women and let’s not just assume women who claim themselves as “independent” are all too masculine or too much. In this episode, I’ll be spilling the beans on what a real and good independent women truly are and the type of men they prefer to date. I know a lot more about this topic as I also consider myself an independent women. To hear more about the mind of an independent women, please listen to this episode. 

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❤️Yours Druelee

Introducing my very first guest on my podcast, give it up for Mai Thao! 

Mai is a business and life strategist who works and is the founder of a business called YESBarr. She helps single moms or moms in general with creating confident and healthy boundaries between their business and their personal life. If you are a mom who is struggling to boost your business due to your busy life with families, Mai can guide you and your business to where she can help you develop effective sales strategies to increase your income, amplify your business visibility, and create a foundation that embodies relationship building and customer centricity.

Not only will we be talking about her work in helping moms to elevate their business to their desire, we will also be talking about the importance of having boundaries and self care so that we as an individual don’t get stress or burned out.

If you are interested in working with Mai, I will leave all of her website and social media’s below:

Mai Thao- YESBarr

Website: https://www.yesbarr.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100086007007839&mibextid=LQQJ4d

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yesbarr.mai/?fbclid=IwAR2tGHeQAqR_XFuwEOgNw4sPOaNJlTf7EBAZmnUCET0TazeRalpXOI_Sg0c 

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❤️Yours Druelee

Loving and putting yourself first is not a selfish thing to do especially if it is helping you to heal and grow as an individual. As I continue my healing journey, I’ve learned to also find love within myself. There are 8 things I’ve done to continue growing in my self love journey and of course, many more will come as I continue to love myself.

Keep listening as these 8 things can be the start to your self love healing:

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee