Yours Druelee

This episode is near and dear to my heart. To know other Hmong women from families, friends, or acquaintances who went through similar life experiences and situations as I have, it is only right for me to express and share some knowledge of how you can become the best Hmong women in today's modern society. The things we were taught in our upbringings can either make us, or break us. These things that I will be sharing with you on this episode is to challenge you to see life in a different way and to open your eyes to realize that you too matter in your life and you can live the life you deserve. To hear more about what those things are, keep listening because you don't want to miss this episode.

Stay love & bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

You’ve done the work to heal yourself from your past relationships. You’ve spend months and even years on being self aware of your mental stability and knowing what you truly want and need for yourself. You then ask yourself, am I ready to date again?

When it's time to start dating, it often boils down to a combination of self-awareness, emotional readiness, and a genuine desire for connection. This readiness is marked by signs such as emotional stability, openness to vulnerability, clarity of intentions, and a willingness to invest time and energy into building a relationship. Additionally, being ready to date involves having a positive outlook, enjoying independence while being open to partnership, and having dealt with major emotional baggage. Ultimately, recognizing these signs indicates that you're prepared to start on a new romantic journey with the intention of furthering meaningful connections and growing within yourself.

If you were to ask me if I was interested or am currently dating as of last year, my answer would have been a big no. But what if I was to tell you my answer has changed? What if I am dating again, or that I am in a new relationship? To find out what my current status is, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

When to stop settling for less in life involves understanding your worth and acknowledging when situations, relationships, or circumstances do not align with your values, aspirations, and well-being. It requires courage to break free from complacency and embrace change, even when it's uncomfortable or uncertain. By trusting your intuition, setting boundaries, and pursuing personal growth, you can empower yourself to prioritize your happiness, fulfillment, and success. Knowing when to stop settling for less is about honoring your worthiness and creating a life that reflects your true potential and desires. Understand that by settling for more, it allows you to show up as your best self in your relationships and responsibilities. When you know what you are deserving of, you're better equipped to contribute positively to others' lives. Wanting more for yourself is not selfish, but leads to a healthier, more fulfilled version of yourself.

I know it can be hard to put yourself first as we live our life involving others in it, however we must recognize when we are settling for less when we are worthy for more. On this episode, I want to share with you some of the things you can identify when you are settling for less and some of the ways to get out of that and get more than what you truly deserve. To find out what those things are, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

Recognizing and embracing our self-worth is crucial for living fulfilling lives and fostering healthy relationships. Our self-worth shapes how we perceive ourselves, navigate life's challenges, and interact with those around us. When we know our self-worth, we are better equipped to set boundaries, advocate for our needs, and cultivate authentic connections with others. By valuing ourselves, we establish a foundation of self-respect and confidence that empowers us to lead lives aligned with our values, aspirations, and to engage in relationships that honor our worthiness. Ultimately, knowing our self-worth enables us to live authentically and cultivate meaningful connections that enhance our overall well-being and fulfillment.

As I continue to live my life as a single woman, I am doing a lot self work to understand myself and the ways I contribute to nurturing and loving me. With the experiences I have gone through when it comes to relationships with others, I have to also focus on the relationship with myself. What do I need to do in order to know what I need and want in my life? I have to truly search those things within me so that I know the things I am getting is worth my time and effort. I have to know my worth so that I am not just accepting anything that is not meant for me. 

So on this episode, I’ll be talking in depths of the things I have realize that is important to know my worth when it comes to my life and in creating relationships with others. Self is the most important part of life that we all should not neglect. If you want to know more of how you can identify your self worth when it comes to relationships within yourself and with others, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

Self-care is often associated with pampering oneself externally – indulging in spa treatments, taking relaxing  baths, or enjoying a peaceful walk in nature. However, true self-care is much more than just external indulgences. It's about nurturing both the external and internal aspects of our well-being to achieve a harmonious balance in life.

Externally, self-care involves practices that cater to our physical health and appearance. Taking care of our external selves not only contributes to our physical health but also boosts our confidence and self-esteem, allowing us to present our best selves to the world.

However, self-care goes beyond the surface level. It also nurture our internal well-being – our mental, emotional, and spiritual health. Cultivating self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-love are essential aspects of internal self-care.

In today's fast-paced and demanding world, prioritizing self-care is crucial for maintaining overall well-being and preventing burnout. By taking the time to nurture both our external and internal selves, we can cultivate resilience, inner peace, and a deeper connection with ourselves and others. Self-care is not selfish; it's a necessary investment in our health, happiness, and fulfillment.

If you don’t know by now, I am not a surface level type of person. I love going into depth when it comes to conversations to understand the deeper meaning of everything and everyone I am surrounded by. When I hear self care, I only hear from people that they take care of themselves externally. As for me, I want to make sure that I am taking care of myself both externally and internally. So if you want to hear more about what I am doing to take care of myself externally and internally, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

As we embark on a new year, it's essential to consider how we protect our energy from negative people and influences. This can include setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and surrounding ourselves with positivity. By being mindful of the energy we allow into our lives, we can create a healthier and more positive environment for personal growth and well-being in the year ahead.

The new year just started and there are a couple of things I want to incorporate as I continue to enjoy the life God has given me. I am protecting my peace and energy and I have no room for negativity nor will I tolerate anything that is going to hold be back from becoming the best version of myself. 2024 is the year of karma and finance, and I can sense some good abundance coming my way. To hear more of how I will be protecting my energy this year, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

Wishing you all a happy holiday and may the new year brings love, happiness, good health, and an abundance of wealth. 

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

Abstaining from sexual activity is a choice made by individuals for a variety of reasons, often rooted in health, religion, and spiritual beliefs. Whether it's a decision driven by concerns about physical well-being, adherence to religious doctrines, or a deep connection to spiritual principles, this choice reflects the profound influence that personal values and convictions can have on one's approach to intimate relationships. This introduction opens the door to a broader exploration of the diverse motivations and consequences of sexual abstinence, highlighting the intricate interplay between physical, religious, and spiritual aspects of human life.

Whether you practice the hookup culture or are on your “hoe phase”, whatever choice you make pertaining to your sex life is all up to you. As for me, I took the opposite route. Just a disclaimer, this episode will contain words related to sex, so if you are not 18 years or older or if the subject of sex is not your favorite subject, then I suggest you to skip this episode. If you are open to conversations about sex and are interested to hear my views on why I am abstaining from sex, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

I heard it’s your birthday today? Congratulations on turning a year older and wiser. As we celebrate this special day, it's only natural to reflect upon the past year and look forward to the upcoming one.

Over the past year, you have undoubtedly experienced personal growth, challenges, and moments of triumph. Each day has been an opportunity for learning and self-discovery. Reflecting on the lessons learned, you might have understood the importance of resilience, embracing change, and the value of meaningful connections.

As you navigate the next year of your life, there are endless possibilities to explore, discover, and learn from. You might have set goals or aspirations for yourself—whether it's personal, professional, or a combination of both. It could be further developing a skill, strengthening relationships, pursuing new passions, or even embarking on adventures that allow you to expand your horizons.

Embrace each day as an opportunity for growth and wisdom, knowing that with each passing day, you have the chance to become the best version of yourself. Take on challenges with confidence, learn from your mistakes, and celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem.

It’s Sagittarius season and I am turning a year old.  A year has taught me a lot of things and I have seen the growth in myself. For those who are single and are discovery yourself during your time of singleness, I want to share with you some of the things I’ve learn after a year of my birthday. So sit back and listen because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

Going to college is a journey that opens doors to a world of opportunities and personal growth. It's a time when young individuals embark on a path of higher education, honing their skills and expanding their horizons. The expectation of life after graduation is one filled with promise and potential. 

Graduates anticipate entering the workforce, armed with knowledge and qualifications that will enable them to pursue their passions, contribute to society, and build a fulfilling career. College are to equips students with not only academic knowledge but also essential life skills, expanding their perspectives and fostering a sense of independence. The post-graduation phase promises a chance to put all this learning into action and set out on a path toward a brighter future.  

For me and many college graduates, the post-graduation period was supposed to hold the promise of a bright future filled with opportunities and success. However, the reality is that not all graduates find themselves on a smooth path to prosperity. In fact, in some cases, life after college can be marked by uncertainty, underemployment, and financial struggles. This phenomenon, where a significant portion of college graduates do not achieve the level of success they anticipated, sheds light on the challenges and complexities of the modern job market and the importance of addressing issues related to student debt, changing workforce dynamics, and the need to adapt in the face of adversity. 

College was an experience that I do not regard experiencing, however after graduation, I was face with a lot of questions as to what I am suppose to do in my life, pertaining to my career. This was the first moment in my life where I hit rock bottom, I probably went through a depression phase, and it was one of the things in life I have never shared with my close friends and families. If you are going through this phase in your life and you need comfort or advice as to figuring life after college, keep listening  because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

Stay love and bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee