Yours Druelee

We may live our lives masking a different person, whether we are a mom, dad, christian, muslim, catholic, heterosexual, homosexual, and tons and tons of titles we live by. But at the end of the day, when all those titles which we consider our identity is stripped away from us, can we truly be our authentic self, or are we just masking ourselves to portray to others that we are those things to truly hide our true identity? 2025 just started, however as the year progress, lets not forget to live authentically verses living for others when really, are we truly happy to live for others? Are we really ourselves or are we hiding our true self from the world?

Stay love & bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

The 4B Movement, originating in South Korea, is a cultural and social movement centered around four principles, no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no childbirth. Primarily led by women, this movement challenges traditional societal expectations by rejecting conventional relationship and family norms. The 4B Movement advocates for personal autonomy, encouraging individuals to prioritize self-fulfillment, career aspirations, and financial independence without the societal pressures of being in a romantic relationships or family life. While initially focused on South Korean culture, the movement has resonated globally, especially among those questioning traditional gender roles and societal expectations.

As I enter the dating world, I have come across many labels or terms in which it has describe a certain group of people base on their mentality and the issues they have faced as an individual or as a collective. 4B is one of those groups that I did not know I was practicing, not knowing that 4B was the term describing me not wanting to date men. I have my reasons why I am still practicing the 4B movement. Will I change my mind and jump out of the bandwagon and start dating men again? To hear more about the 4B movements and my answer to that question, keep listen because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

To read and get more information resources of this episode, click the link below:

https://www.yoursdruelee.com/post/ep50-4b 

As always, stay love & bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

Let's celebrate as we enter Sagittarius season! By the time you are listening to this mini episode, it’ll be my birthday already! Wishing all my Sagittarius and anyone’s birthday on November a happiest fulfilled birthday!!

Along with that, let's not forget to give thanks on Thanksgiving day. Whether you celebrated it early, the day, or afterwards, I am thankful for each and every one of you for listening and supporting Yours Druelee from the beginning till now. I love you long time!

I’ll be back with the main episode next month so stay tuned as always because you don’t wanna miss the up coming episodes I have for you.

Happiest Birthday, Happy Thanksgiving, and Happy Hmong New Years everyone!!

Stay love & bless!

❤️ Yours Druelee

The "no contact" rule, often used at the end of a relationship, is an effective strategy for healing and moving forward. By cutting off communication with an ex-partner, individuals can create the emotional distance necessary to process their feelings, regain independence, and break unhealthy attachment patterns. This period of no contact allows for self-reflection, reduces the chances of prolonging emotional pain, and prevents the rekindling of toxic dynamics. Ultimately, it helps individuals focus on personal growth and recovery, making it easier to move on from the relationship.

Depending on how you ended things with an ex-partner, implementing the no contact rule into your life may or may not work. However, on this episode, I will be sharing the importance of practicing no contact when it comes to completing cutting off people who no longer are meant for you so that you can move on with your life and attract those who are really meant for you. To hear how affective no contact really works, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

To read and get more information resources of this episode, click the link below:https://www.yoursdruelee.com/post/ep49-no-contact

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❤️Yours Druelee.

Although I did not get married legally, I did however get married culturally. I do see the benefit differences and both have good and bad perks when it comes to deciding whether or not to get marry legally or culturally.  This topic sparks my interest due to a recent social media drama that involved an oversea Hmong woman who came to America and got legally married when back in her homeland she has a husband and a child.

There are three truths when it comes to what actually happens: your truth, their truth, and the real truth. I don’t know who is telling the truth but I do have an idea of what could have happened in this situation. To hear more about legally and culturally marriage and my opinion on the drama circulating on social media, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

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❤️Yours Druelee

Before you continue listening to this episode, I do want to warn you that this episode contains discussions of sensitive topics, including marital r&%e, SA, and explicit language which may be triggering or distressing for some listeners. I strongly advise you to proceed with caution and prioritize your well-being. Viewer discretion is advised, and I encourage anyone affected by these topics to seek support from trusted resources or professionals.

I’ve always try to enlighten any heavy taboo topics I have mentioned on my podcast and I’ve also have given my personal experiences as an example. My experiences when it comes to marital r&%e may be minor, but it’s still something I want to share with you. So if you are interested in hearing more and what you can do to not only help yourself and the people you may know that is going through this, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

To read and get more information resources of this episode, click the link below:

https://www.yoursdruelee.com/post/ep47-consent-yours-druelee-podcast

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Yours Druelee

It has been four years since my divorce and what better way to keep moving and creating a life that I know I deserve is to share some of the things I’ve learned to accept for myself and to bring forth only the good things in my life. Restarting life all over again has its good and bad times but all in all, I have no regrets choosing this path. I mean, I am living my best life and am looking forward to better days to come. To hear more about what those things are, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode. 

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❤️Yours Druelee

I don’t know about you guys, but growing up in an asian household and going to church and practicing the christianity religion,  the purity culture was something I was taught to follow in order to save myself for marriage. When I say save myself, I mean no sex till marriage. Now that I am a lot older, do I still believe and follow the purity culture? Keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

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❤️Yours Druelee

Born and raised in the United States, I have lived my life to identify myself as Hmong and an American. Being the first generation in my family to intertwine both cultures and belief has made me feel conflicted as to who I truly identity myself and whether or not I may or may not belong to neither of those culture. The things I’ve learned and was taught in my upbringing were things I thought I was supposed to carry onto my adult years. However, with the experiences I have lived and learned from my past and present life, it has made me to redirect my life to where I no longer believe or live the life I did before.  The things my parents and the Hmong culture has taught me has no force or bondage against me, and now I am breaking away from it to become a free spirit individual. 

I’m sure many of you listeners who are first generation or multicultural has struggled to truly define your identity when it comes to your culture. On this episode, I’ll share my experiences of my struggle of identifying and to where I am currently standing when it comes to my cultural identity. To get to know a bit more about me and my opinions about the Hmong culture, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

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❤️Yours Druelee

For those who have been with me from the beginning of my podcast, I started sharing with you the before and after of my marriage and restarting my life all over again as a single woman. Throughout the years of being single, I took the time to reevaluate my life as to what I could have done differently and to understand the situation from both parties. After going through this traumatic experience, I have grown to become the best version of myself and yes, you can meet the light at the end of the tunnel because I have seen the light. The beginning may not be so pleasant but trust me, when you use the time to work on yourself, heal, and choose you, you will definitely get the life that you truly deserve. 

On this episode, I’ll share with you what I have learned since being divorced and I hope for those who are thinking, currently, or is already divorce can relate and feel comfort in whatever decisions you make in your life. If you are interested in hearing more, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode.

Stay love & bless!

❤️Yours Druelee