Love is in the air and a lot of people are either getting cuffed, engaged, or getting married. But before we say our I do’s to the person we will forever spend the rest of our life with, we got to make sure we are doing well as an individual. Do we truly know ourselves completely in order to be ready to join our hands in marriage with another person? There are four questions that I have asked myself before I can get married again. Doesn’t matter if this is your first or your second time getting married, ask yourself these questions before you say “I do”.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

**Disclaimer, I will be sharing a small portion on certain abuse that may be too taboo to talk about or may trigger some of you so please listen per your discretion.

When we hear abuse, we only think physical abuse. But do you know there are other forms of abuse that can happen when we are in a serious relationship with our partners? Whether you are dating or married, we experience other types of abuse besides physical abuse. In this episode, I’ll be sharing with you the 7 types of abuse in relationship and what I have experienced during my previous relationship. 

7 Types of Abuse (links are provided for additional information):

If you or anyone you know are being abuse in any form that I've listed above, please contact the information below so you and your love ones can be safe from harm:

National Domestic Violence Hotline

https://www.thehotline.org/

800-799-7233

Hours: 24/7

Send Text: Text SMART to 88788

National Sexual Assault Hotline

https://www.rainn.org/resources

800-656-4673

Hours: 24/7

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

As I become a content creator and am putting myself out into the public via social media, I am aware that there will be a lot negative people who will bash and write very mean and nasty comments towards me. Let’s call them Negative Nancys and Negative Nates.

Negative Nancys/ Nates can be outsiders and they can also be close friends and families. As I continue to heal and learn more about myself and take control of my emotions and my life, I find that having those stupid arguments are not worth my energy or breathe. People like Nancys and Nates will not take their own accountability nor do they see outside of themselves.

To save your time, energy, and your mental stability, keep listening as I have 7 things that you can do to deal with those Negative Nancys/ Nates:

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

When you hit rock bottom in your life and you thought that certain groups or people who have been involved your life will help you because of your years of service and dedication in helping them. In return you think they will offer their service and help back, no questions or hesitation. This is yet another disappointment in my life where although I've consider church as my family, they truly showed their true colors during and after my divorce.

I didn't mean to get emotional on this episode but I did at one point in my life was so in love with God and the desire and yearning to build that relationship with him. Can I ever rebuild that again? Find out more on this episode.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

A little reminder and advice to all my single people. As we are one of those few people who have decided to embark in our self healing journey after our last break up/ relationship, I just want to let you all single people know that I am with you and we all can get through this together. Deciding to choose to stay single until we are ready for another commitment or to be in a relationship is a roller coaster ride full of mix emotions of love, sadness, madness, disappointment, every emotions we encounter, you name it, we all are going through it. Keep pushing, keep loving you, and become the very best version of yourself so you can be the best for your next partner.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

!!18+ only!!

Good guys think that they are the only ones that finished last. What they don’t know is that there are good girls who also finish last. And I mean we do finish last…in bed. This episode I’ll be diving deep into my experience on sex and how as a good girl, I too matter when in comes to receiving pleasure. There’s a bit more about me that you all don’t know. For those who are brave enough to listen, please do because you don’t want to miss this episode!

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

Wishing everyone a Merry Xmas, Happy Holidays, and a Happy new year!

What have I learned as an individual this year and what are my goals for next year? Find out on this mini episode.

Disney movies portray to their audience that once a woman finds her prince charming, they both lived happily ever after, the end. But in reality, we as humans fail to realize that there is no happy ending if both parties are not willing to do the work to have a happy ending, or that the relationship is only one sided.

I soon realize after my divorce that I was giving my all and catering to Lost Boy’s needs and wants. Growing up in the Hmong culture, my parents engrained in me and my sisters that as a Hmong women, we are to learn to cook, clean, get educated, give birth to babies, sit down and shut up even if we are being abuse in numerous of ways, and that we don’t matter but more shameful if we get pregnant before marriage or get divorce. Hmong women only exist to live their life only for their husband.

As you listen to this episode, you will hear from my experience and me realizing that I too matter in the marriage. Just because you vow to spend the rest of your life with your husband, that doesn’t mean you stop living your own individual life. To all my ladies out there, take a listen.

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

I took the plunge and went on my very first solo trip up north on my birthday!

As a woman, it is a scary thing to do just because there’s so many horror stories of women getting kidnap and females are a lot more prone to be as risk of being in danger. I say start small and local, that way you are kinda close to families and friends and you can easily give them your location just in case.

It doesn’t matter if you are single, in a relationship, married, young, or old, I highly recommend everyone to take time just for yourself to do some solo traveling. This is the best time to disconnect from your reality and away from your children and partner, but most importantly to rediscover yourself before you started a family and be in tuned with who you are.

(Not sponsor!!) Getway House is definitely the perfect get away solo trip to actually do that. Explore nature, learn how to start a fire, cook yummy camping foods, and just enjoy the peace and quiet it has to offer. I enjoyed every part of my time there and it’s the perfect gift to myself on my birthday. I didn't have to plan any extravagant parties or dress up and put make-up on. Do yourself a favor and book a weekend get away so you can come back home rejuvenated and newly charged.

If you have travel by yourself, what are some safe places to visit? Please let me know, I’d love to check those places out!!

To book your stay at the Getway House, click on the link for more information: https://getaway.house/

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee

Just like everyone else who is alive and capable of working a 9-5, I have to balance my full time job and also cater to my other side job, which is my nail business and of course this podcast. I would also love to have a little bit of fun in my life besides being a workaholic, and that why I've decided to....

Please listen to the rest of this mini episode to find out what my current change will be for my podcast. As always, be grateful for the things God has given you and always set time for yourself to have fun and let loose. Don't always take life too serious lol! 

Stay love and bless!

❤️Yours Druelee