After salvation the next most important decision is who you marry.
Who you marry matters with your destiny
The science of
Dating intelligently
In pursuit of the one
The first principle in marrying right is trusting God.
How a lady can find the right man
Gen 2:18-21
18- helper- Ezar- a powerful force, equal to you and you can pursue purpose with.
Tow things will bring you close into satisfaction
~ Your relationship with God
~ Who you marry
Comparable means opposite. Infront or before
Opposite- side by side
Marriage is God’s ideas d design
Principles for choosing a life partner
~ prefer Godly singleness over unwise marriage. Marriage is God’s design but don’t worry anyhow. Gal 6:16. If you walk in the Spirit it would be difficult to marry wrong
I will be impossible to marry wrong
Prov 31:10
Marry someone who loves God more than they love you
Following the principles of marriage is more important than God telling you who to marry
Don’t marry hoping you’ll change the person. Only the Holy Spirit changes.
What you can’t manage in a relationship don’t manage in marriage
Marry only a genuine believer.
Marry a potential best friend
Physical beauty will fade
Marry someone you share the same values with
Marry someone with Godly character and appetite for righteousness
How long should you date before engagement? Long enough to observe character and know who you’re getting married to but not long enough to have premarital sexual relationships
Red flags that you should and a relationship
Unrepentant sin
Active addiction
Abuse- physical, emotional, spiritual
Unwillingness to work
Questions to ask
Tell me your salvation story
What do you think about prayer, Bible study, do you pray and study the Bible
Who’s your pastor, who are you submitted to
Financial questions to ask
How do you view money
How should we handle finances in marriage