In this week’s episode, I will answer a question I get asked a lot by my married male clients. They often want to know why their wife is no longer interested in having sex anymore. They describe a time when they were just dating each other and they were having sex quite often. As time goes by, they find their partner wanting and initiating lovemaking less and less often. After a few years and kids later, many of them state that they are lucky if they make love to their wives once every few months! Even worse than that, about 40% of the couples that I counsel are in a sexless marriage. I explain some of the possible reasons why the woman’s sexual libido has dropped so significantly.

Here is a great article on the subject from The Mayo Clinic:

https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/loss-of-sexual-desire-in-women#1

In today’s episode, I answer a clients question on why she doesn’t get approached by men when she is out and about. There are several reasons, none of which may have anything to do with her as to why men may not be approaching her to engage her further. I encourage all of you single ladies …

This episode is a part 2 from Episode 12 on Codependence. I discuss ways to recover from this condition so that you can finally be free of the guilt and shame they often feel. Many codependents feel they have to control and manage others. There are several ways that the codependent can break free of their …

In today’s episode, I talk about codependency and the symptoms of it. Codependency is a word that has been around for years. Many people are familiar with the term but don’t fully understand what it is. My favorite book on this issue is by self-help author Melody Beattie. She introduced the world to the term in …

In today’s episode, I am discussing the concept of No FAP. There has been extensive research on the negative effects of pornography use and masturbation addiction. There is actual scientific research to support the benefits of abstaining from pornography. For many people, men and women alike, porn has been used for a variety of reasons, with and …

In this episode, I discuss my most basic communication technique to improve communication between you and your partner or dates. So many of my couples that I work with talk about a lack of communication between them or miscommunication that leads to problems and concerns. Effective communication is such a great skill to learn and …

In this episode, I discuss how to bring problems to your partner and also how to bring a solution to the table as well. This will keep your partner from viewing you as critical or defeating in the relationship. As human beings, we tend to see what’s wrong first. A popular quote by Dr. John Gottman states …

In this episode, I am discussing the power of taking responsibility versus blaming others. When we stay in our power of personal responsibility, we can make things better. When we blame others, we give our power away. We may be the problem, but that also means we are the solution. Don’t be condemned by this, but …

In this episode, I go on a bit of a rant about broken people. Many of us have been wounded at one point or another by someone who was also wounded and although it may not have been our fault, it is our responsibility to heal and to grow past this.  If I expect to live a …

In this episode, I answer a question that a listener asks about online dating. She is frustrated with the process as many women are and she is wondering what to do about navigating this new landscape in the dating world. Many people today love online dating and they see it as a way to broaden their …