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So, what actually makes a good subbie?

This week, I’m joined by my favorite human—my subbie, my husband, my chaos co-pilot—for a raw, cozy, occasionally ridiculous chat from our camper (yep, it’s cold, the lights are flickering, and we’re doing our best).

We dive into the foundational truths of a strong Female-Led Relationship (FLR): patience, communication, mindset, and consistency. It’s not about checking kink boxes or racing to 24/7 protocols—it’s about building something real, sustainable, and personalized to you.

If you’re struggling with confidence, or wondering why your partner hasn’t “stepped up,” or if you’re just trying to balance kink with regular life (kids, jobs, burnt-out crockpots)—this episode is for you. And yes, we talk about chores, cock cages, chocolate cravings, and how a 30-second hug can save your whole day.

What You'll Walk Away With:

• The top qualities of a strong, supportive submissive
• How to help your Domme grow into her power without pressure
• Why little gestures (like “I got it, relax”) make a massive difference
• What “topping from the bottom” looks like—and how to avoid it
• The importance of daily communication and mutual care in FLR

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• What makes someone a good submissive partner?
• How can a submissive support their dominant in FLR?
• What is topping from the bottom in kink?
• How do you introduce FLR to a reluctant partner?
• How do you build confidence in a female-led relationship?
• What are everyday ways to live out an FLR?
• What are good punishments or positive reinforcement for submissives?

Coaching + Keyholding Available If you’re listening to this and thinking, “God, I wish I had someone to walk me through this,”—you do. I offer one-on-one coaching and personalized keyholding for individuals and couples building or deepening their FLR.

Email me at [email protected]
Let’s find what works for you—not what works for porn scripts.

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