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In this episode, we’re looking at how to bring up the things that matter without turning them into conflict. Angelo explains why men hesitate to start difficult conversations, how avoidance slowly builds resentment, and what it means to speak with steadiness instead of fear.

You’ll learn how to set the right conditions before you speak, how to begin without triggering defensiveness, and how to stay grounded when the conversation gets hard—so truth can build connection instead of tension.

🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ Why avoidance feels safer than honesty—and why it never is
✅ How fear and underdeveloped confidence keep men from speaking up
✅ The three conditions that make hard conversations go well: timing, tone, and territory
✅ How to open a conversation with clarity instead of blame
✅ What to do in the middle of it when you feel yourself shutting down
✅ Why calm isn’t the goal—connection is

💡 Key Takeaway:

Silence might feel like peace, but it’s really distance. Real leadership in love means speaking truthfully with care, creating safety through presence, and trusting that honesty—handled well—is what brings you closer again.

🔨 Action Steps This Week:

1⃣ Pick one conversation you’ve been avoiding.
Don’t choose the biggest topic. Start with something real but manageable—something you’ve been carrying for too long. Naming it to yourself gives it shape.

2⃣ Set the conditions before you speak.
Choose a calm time when both of you have emotional room. Ask if it’s a good time. Approach with steady energy and intention.

3⃣ Use a clean opening line.
Try: “There’s something I want to talk about, and I’m hoping we can do it without it turning into a fight.” That’s enough. You’re opening a door, not pushing through one.

4⃣ Stay grounded when it gets tense.
When your chest tightens or your mind speeds up, pause for one quiet breath. You don’t need to force calm—just stay connected enough to finish the truth you came to say.

That’s how you transform avoidance into leadership—through honest, steady communication that creates safety instead of silence.

🧠 Reflection Questions:

❓ Where in your marriage do you hold back from saying something real because you’re worried about how it might land?
❓ When hard moments show up, what instinct usually takes over in you—withdrawal, defensiveness, or control?
❓ If you brought forward the truth you’ve been avoiding, what do you imagine might shift between the two of you?
❓ What would it look like to approach that next conversation with steadiness instead of fear?

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