Have you ever been in a position in life where you have this phenomenal dream, I mean you know that when you share it with someone, they will just cheer you on with something like, “Man, I know you're gonna kill it?” And you work yourself up to share it out of your excitement, but also fearful because it seems so impossible, and the one person you are trusting to launch you into your accolade moment, quickly became your, “DREAM KILLER?”

Sound familiar? I mean really tap into that long question and think about the moment you shared your deepest desire, only to find out…. you should have just kept your mouth shut.

Those are the moments in life that can actually reshape who you are. They can reshape you in a way to build you or destroy you. And in these situations, you quickly learn who really is your support. The one that you thought had your back in all of your processes, is the one that broke your spirit.

But, did the person really mean to break you? What was their intention? Was it to protect you? Or was it to give you sound advice and maybe the message was delivered poorly?

Listen, these moments can paralyze you or they can cause you to run in the right direction. But again, it all boils down to choice. Will you choose this moment to be fuel or fire? Fuel if used properly can create great strides, but it can also create danger…. like a wildfire.

Which will YOU choose?

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Matthew 7:6

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Have you ever partnered with someone, and while working with them you had the thought that you were the one working the hardest or most, in the situation? Sometimes that is the case and we are investing more than the worker next to us, and at other times it is simply our need to control the situation.

Listen, when you are doing things in life, the most peaceful moment is knowing that you are doing exactly what you need to be doing, and not worried about what someone else isn't doing. That is just so exhausting. And the people in your life that remind you of that person that doesn't do anything, is probably the person in your life that needs to do the most.

Now, that may sound funny, but it's true. There are people in life that have no other priorities but to focus on someone else. Don't be that person. Look at what you do, and strengthen yourself in it, and stay patient because, at some point, you may be leading that person.

Do your part and allow others to do theirs.

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James 4:17

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Are you in a season of indecision? Do you feel like you are stuck in the muck? I mean you try to find your passion and dream, but just cannot seem to connect. You are not alone my friend. This is a place in life that someone has been at least a handful of times. it does not depend on your demographics, culture, race, or religion.... it is just a part of life. So what do you do in these circumstances?

When you are in a place of indecision, find a place to serve someone. Reach out your hand to guide someone. Lay down a towel for someone to cross over. lift up the atmosphere by speaking life into it.

Every one of these things is servanthood, and when you get out of yourself, you will see how you can benefit other people, and that my friend will set you free at the moment.

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Proverbs 11:25

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Commitment and accountability both work hand in hand. When you are committed, you are truly calling forth accountability! Look at it as life is a football field, and the players are the people and circumstances playing life. The referee is constantly looking for the play and finding the flaw in it. When the ref finds the flaw, the whistle blows, and the whole entire game comes to a stop.

So, how does this relate to commitment calling forth your accountability? Commitment is the player, accountability is the law tied behind the follow-through and staying on track to get to the end result, which is the goal. when accountability is not looked for, then the commitment is really not in the game the way it should be.

Everything in life comes with accountability. You get married, you stand before friends and family to keep you accountable. You get a new job, you go through training. You go to school, your report to your teacher…. you get the point, right?

So, how is your commitment calling forth your accountability today?

Are you passing the ball unlawfully?

Are you just playing the game for fun?

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Galatians 6:9

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Life is full of paths, rivers, lakes, and bridges. Bridges are the very thing that is sacred to you because they connect you with a tribe or a community of people that you do life with. Even if you are an introvert, you still do life with people. How? You shop at a grocery store, you pump gas somewhere, you even shop online and door dash…. still interacting with people.

These partnerships in life are essential for your well-being, and the well-being of others. So, keeping the bridge is good, right?

But what about the bridge that the enemy of your life wants to keep open with you? Some belief in Satan and some don't, and whether you do or not, there is a thing called evil. The crazy bad stuff in life that you know is simply not a good source. So, to burn the bridge between you and the bad is the one bridge that is safe to burn out of your life. That connection to intentional bad things needs to go away in order for your success to manifest for you.

What areas in your life are you experiencing more negative relationships?

Are you a bystander or heavily involved?

What bridges do you need to get rid of in order for you to get on the path of true freedom for yourself?

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Ephesians 4:27

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Have you ever experienced a shift or an adjustment that you really didn't expect or ask for? What did you do in that moment or season? You probably had to make some quick decisions to make your life flow in that circumstance, right?

In those circumstances and shifts, in order for things to flow, there had to be routines that have come into play. When you are walking out of this thing called life, new things seem to come as you are in momentum. And when they come, new routines are added to the equation to make your life simpler.

What if old routines stayed in that equation? You would probably be in a frustrating place because you are not embracing change.

One thing in life that never changes, is that life changes lol! Change is inevitable, and change will change your life if you are willing to pause and re-evaluate your present motion.

What areas in your life are you experiencing change?

And how can you change the routines to fit your everyday life in this shift?

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Romans 12:2

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Are your daily behaviors bringing you the success, joy, or happiness you really want to have in your life? You have probably heard the saying,” Good things come to those that wait” and that is true in part, but truly good things come to those who are CONSISTENT!

As you have read in the previous Life Tip about consistency, it takes some work! And as you do the work, you will begin to see the fruit of your labor begin to manifest in your environment.

See, waiting for opportunity may have worked a hundred years ago, simply because times were so different. However, that statement really isn't the whole truth because even back in the day with not so much technology, someone still had a vision that they carried out.

The good thing may not have come in a split second, or even when they expected it, but it came. This mentality of good things begins with an inner dialogue in your mind and heart. Without a solid method of self conversation, success will never satisfy your soul.

How are you speaking to yourself in this season?

Are you content in your inner dialogue?

Does that conversation add to you or take from you?

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1 Corinthians 15:58

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What are you sitting on that needs to be carried? 

Yep, that'll preach. The things that you sit on are the things that you have collected over the years. Some good, some not so good, either way, there is a treasure in what you sit on.

There's a story in the bible about a man that sat near a healing pool, and it says that he was there for quite some time, 38 years to be exact. Now, the crazy part is…. that is a long time to be near a healing pool and not be healed. The story says that he showed up every time the waters were stirred but never was able to get in because he had no help.

Listen, you are probably thinking… “why the heck didn't he just dive in… or if I needed a healing, I would have done what it took to make it happen.” And you are absolutely right, jump in, get your healing, and walk away. But there was something definitely different about this guy and his story.

When Jesus showed up, He simply said, “Do you want to be made well?” The guy had every excuse in the book of why he couldn't get in the pool. But if you notice, Jesus never asked about the pool, or about why he was there. The bible also tells us that Jesus knew this dude's condition, and Jesus showed up with a question. Now, you are probably thinking, “If He knew, why isn't He healing him?”

Here it is….. The guy was never crippled, he was just sitting on a mat, the thing that he should be carrying and using for a short period of time, now became his dwelling place. See, there was nothing wrong with the guy sitting by the pool, what was wrong was he wasn't ill, cripple or unable to walk. He sat on a thing that at the moment he needed to rest. But this thing he sat on, now became his place of refuge.

Are you in a place of false refuge? Are you sitting on something you ought to be carrying to your next destination?

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John 5

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Being consistent takes some serious work! 

It will take everything you got, and the focus from it all to make things happen in your life. Consistency is one of the greater weaknesses that a lot of people are challenged in, and it causes dreams and aspirations to sit on the shelf with inconsistent patterns.

So, what are the steps in order to move forward in a positive way to get to the success in your consistency?

So, glad you asked….

1. Take the time and evaluate what you want to accomplish and why?

2. Look at the end result and reverse engineer the way to make these things happen consistently. For example, if you desire to lose 50 lbs in a year, then break down the math…. 52 weeks in a year, which means about an lb per week to accomplish that. Then look at your food intake, your movement, and your “why”, because the why will determine the how. Your “WHY” needs to have some serious weight, No pun intended…

3. Start small.

4. Stay in Motion

5. Count your wins.

6. Share them with someone

7. Repeat daily

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Ecclesiastes 9:10

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In Life Tip 31, You saw the importance of opening your mouth, and in this Life Tip, you will learn why it will free someone else!! That hidden place that you may guard with all of your strength and might, can actually be the story that someone else just may need to hear. This dark place that you were once in, is definitely a lit place of freedom for that other person. The light that you shed from that darkness will definitely lead them to the place that they need to be.

And maybe your story isn't a dark place, maybe there is a simple how-to moment that you can share. Either way, it will benefit another person, and what if that person that you share with, was waiting for an answer somehow, someway to deliver them to the right place and path? What if the answer lies in you? Or, what if the story that you share is passed on to another person. See, we really don't know the ripple effect that our lives can bless.

So, where are you today with this?

Whom will you impact at this moment?

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Philippians 2:3

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